Reviews tagging 'Miscarriage'

The Impatient by Djaïli Amadou Amal

19 reviews

fio_the_reader's review against another edition

emotional informative reflective fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Miscarriage and Rape

mionnechan's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child death, Domestic abuse, Infidelity, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, Religious bigotry, Pregnancy, and Injury/Injury detail

Moderate: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Bullying, and Alcohol

bobinsbooknook's review against another edition

dark emotional sad fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

A harrowing book and glad to have listened to it –the writing style alone captured such depth of emotion and heartache in such a short book – incredibly written.

Each of the women’s stories felt unique and broke my heart to hear about their struggles with patience – which in this context just means to be submissive to their partners abuse and emotional torment as Muslims in Cameroon – and how they intwined with one another.

The story of Hindou being beaten and abused into a state on numbness and questioned sanity was for me the most devastating.

An incredibly powerful read about, unlike anything I have read before and will be keeping an eye out for a physical copy as I can see myself reading again!

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse and Misogyny

Moderate: Mental illness, Miscarriage, and Rape

hex_agon's review against another edition

dark emotional informative reflective sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse and Rape

Moderate: Miscarriage

Minor: Suicidal thoughts

joelle_lecturechocolathe's review against another edition

dark emotional informative sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual violence, Violence, Religious bigotry, and Gaslighting

Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Panic attacks/disorders, and Blood

Minor: Drug abuse, Hate crime, Suicidal thoughts, and Alcohol

petitpoucetreveur's review against another edition

emotional informative sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.0

Ce livre me laisse profondément partagée. Je trouve que c'est un roman important et efficace dans son projet de donner la parole à des femmes qui ne l'ont pas, de montrer une réalité sociale et culturelle qui semble si inconcevable et révoltante pour des lecteurs occidentaux du XXIe siècle. Le parcours de ces trois femmes, leur oppression et leur souffrance imposés par une culture patriarcale et misogyne ne doit pas être ignoré sous prétexte que ce n'est pas agréable à lire. C'est un livre immersif et sans pitié pour son lecteur qu'il plonge dans la dureté d'une société où les femmes ne sont que des épouses en devenir, condamnées à la volonté de leur père et mari. Néanmoins, bien que je comprenne l'importance de ce type de témoignage, l'écriture ne m'a pas convaincu. Elle est simple, droit au but, un brin redondante. Dans une certaine mesure, cette simplicité stylistique participe à l'authenticité du discours, mais d'un autre côté, je déplore une forme de pauvreté du style d'écriture. Je pense qu'une écriture plus travaillée aurait pu accompagner le destin de ces femmes. Après, là n'était peut-être pas l'objectif, et ce n'est qu'un reproche tout à fait personnel. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse and Emotional abuse

Moderate: Mental illness and Sexual assault

Minor: Miscarriage

cpsawcd's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional informative sad fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse, Miscarriage, Rape, Sexual violence, Violence, and Schizophrenia/Psychosis

themeanfrench's review against another edition

dark emotional informative sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, Religious bigotry, and Gaslighting

Moderate: Alcoholism, Drug use, Infidelity, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Pedophilia, Suicidal thoughts, Blood, Pregnancy, and Alcohol

careinthelibrary's review against another edition

challenging emotional sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, and Injury/Injury detail

Moderate: Bullying, Confinement, Drug abuse, Incest, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Religious bigotry, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, and Alcohol

colourism

year23's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

It’s hard to put into words the emotions this book evokes - rage, despair, hatred, agony. I had some notion of the practice of forced marriage and polygamy but this was one of the most raw portrayals of its damage and tyranny over women’s lives in this region (Camaroon). Your heart will break. I know these stories will stay with me for a long time. 

But what stands out to me maybe most of all is this title, and it’s resonance in the way each woman chooses to fight back, to reclaim her self, her place, her choices. They are each impatient in a world determined to erase them with the command “Munyal”.

There’s so much to unpack in this short book - it’s so clearly an important text. I highly recommend though do check the content warnings. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Blood, Religious bigotry, and Injury/Injury detail