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The Dead Romantics by Ashley Poston

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cavallonee's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful lighthearted sad fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

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challenging emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective sad fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Spice Rating: 🌶️ / 5

A ghostwriter who sees ghosts? Sign me up!

After a terrible breakup with the partner she thought was the one, Florence Day truly believes that love is dead. And that's a problem since Florence is the ghostwriter for a hugely popular romance author and is late on her deadline. Even her new, and quite handsome, editor won't give her another extension. Out of nowhere, Florence's father dies, and she leaves behind her writing to bury her dad at her family's funeral home. Florence hasn't been back to her small hometown in 10 years, but she now has to face both her figurative and literal ghosts as she is introduced to a new one--a certain handsome editor who is just as confused to be at the funeral home as Florence is to see him.

As with the Seven Year Slip, Ashley Poston merges magical realism with our contemporary reality to create a beautiful story focused on healing from grief, accepting yourself, and love, of course. The fact that Poston created a female main character is a ghostwriter who can see ghosts is just so brilliantly clever and hilarious.

Even though Florence has a vendetta against love, her romance with Benji just may be among my favorites. I loved seeing how two people could fall in love without even touching, and their story shows how souls can be truly tied together.

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adventurous challenging emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This book was like a love letter to life and death. It was so much more than just a romance!
It beautifully showed the love of Florence and her family while they grieved for her father. This book touched me in a way I wasn't expecting. It made me feel all the feelings. I cried and laughed, sometimes at the same time. While this was a love story between Florence and Benji, this was also a story of love. Love for family, friends, yourself, life and even death. It was messy, it was heartbreaking but mostly, it was beautiful.

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corrieroe's review against another edition

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emotional sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

The Dead Romantics by Ashley Poston is a quirky paranormal rom-com about Florence Day who is a ghost writer and can also see and speak to ghosts.

Following a break-up from Lee Marlow, who used her as a muse to write a novel, she checks in with her new editor, Benji Andor, who thinks she is an assistant to, rather than the ghost writer of, Ann Nichols, famous romantic novelist...but only if she can find her own happily ever after to submit the final book in her contract.

The death of her Dad sees her returning to the small town where she grew up after 10 years in New York, and to the family run funeral home where she is startled by the ghost of Benji Andor! Confused, she helps to organise her Dad's memorial, which must include 1000 wildflowers, grouped by colour, and Elvis singing at the grave whilst Benji follows her around as she grieves. Can she find her "happily ever after" in the mist of her sadness?

I borrowed a copy of this book from Taunton Library and listened to it on BorrowBox. I read this for prompt 21, written by a ghostwriter, for the 52 Book Club Reading Challenge 2024.

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slow-paced

Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? Yes

2.5

What To Expect:

Dealing with death and grief
Ghosts
Lack of self-belief
Writer’s block
Immature and juvenile (adult) FMC
“I have to do everything alone and can’t ask for or accept help”
Family dynamics
Insta-love

Spice: 2🌶️

Romantic tension, a few kisses, FMC removes her shirt while MMC talks explicitly about what he would like to do to/with her if he could, one semi-open-door scene but without explicit sex talk or descriptions

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My Thoughts:

I’m bummed because I loved Ashley Poston’s book The Seven Year Slip; it was a 5-star read, and I was hoping this book would be the same, but sadly, The Dead Romantics was a miss for me. It was the ending that really pulled down my rating, but I honestly had problems with the entire book.

Plot: The plot was somewhat interesting, though I felt it tried to take on too many different storylines or topics - ghosts, death, romance, career stuff, family dynamics, an eccentric funeral... It was a lot, and because there was so much breadth, it was lacking the depth I wanted in both the grief/death storyline, as well as in the romance storyline.

But it was going along okay(ish) until I got closer to the end. The ending was happy, but so, so bad. Pretty much everything that happened after

Florence went to see Ben in the hospital (and - surprise, surprise - as the queen of walk-aways, proceeded to walk away before she even made it to his room, but not before assaulting her ex by punching him in the face)

was a big ‘nope’ for me.

But when Ben didn’t remember Florence outside of their professional working relationship, then suddenly remembered her when she went to see him in his office, then immediately dropped everything to fly with her to her brother’s wedding, then hopped into bed with her, and they exchanged “I love you’s” - all on the same day, and after only a week spent together and months spent apart? Um, no. Hard no. There's no way their declarations of love could be taken seriously

.

I’m all for happy endings, but I hate insta-love, and that ending was too much, too fast and ended up feeling so forced, rushed, and cringey.

Characters: I wasn't really a fan of any of the characters, if I'm honest.

28-year-old Florence was the FMC, and she was juvenile and unlikeable. She whined about the same things over and over again. She insisted on doing everything for her father's funeral herself because she was the oldest (but didn’t actually do much of anything???), and then felt resentful about it. God forbid she ask for or accept proffered help. And she had a bad habit of getting up and walking away any time someone tried to have a conversation with her. For most of the book, we basically followed her around as she moaned about her failure as a writer, walked away from people (mostly Ben), opened her laptop to write (but didn’t), and pounded back the rum and cokes or her “zoom zoom juice” (more on that below).

Ben, the MMC, had no discernible personality, other than being tall, having great forearms and being organized.

The side characters, like Florence’s best friend and family, were mostly flat and caricature-like, and while I’m all about having representation, the LGBTQ rep (in particular, the non-binary character) felt forced, rather than organic or integrated.

Writing: The writing was a bit all over the place for me. Sometimes it was really good. There were many beautifully worded sentences throughout, as well as touching emotional moments or scenes, like, for example, when Florence found out her father had passed away (that’s not a spoiler).

“‘They couldn’t - he was gone. He was gone by the time we got there - by - he was…he’s gone, darling.”

Gone.

The word was so quiet, I barely heard it. Or maybe my heart, thundering in my ears, was too loud. But whatever it was, the word didn’t register, not really, not for a long, long moment. And then, like the cold wind, it burrowed deep into my bones, and I could feel my heart beginning to crack. Right down the center, breaking off all the pieces of me that were my father, all of the memories…”

I loved parts like that. But in addition to these better-written sentences and scenes, there were also many things that irked me. Many of them were small things, I know, but they still felt grating when taken together. Things like: spelling errors, corny puns, inconsistencies, choppy and confusing dialogue, repetition, or the way Florence referred to coffee as “zoom zoom juice," "battery fuel," or “battery acid.” Need I remind you that she was 28? Plus, the book was sometimes just a little too meta for me in its conversations about writing, publishing, and scene-making.

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funny hopeful lighthearted relaxing slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

My summary: Florence is the ghostwriter for a popular romance novelist and she’s on a deadline for her newest book. The problem is that she no longer believes in love and can’t finish her manuscript with a happy ending. Her new editor won’t give her another extension, leaving her in a predicament that no longer is very important once she receives the news that her father has died. After having left her hometown for being ostracized for her ability to see and talk with ghosts, this will be her first trip back since leaving. To her surprise, the ghost that appears on her doorstep is not her father—it’s her new editor. As she grapples with regrets and what is really important in life, this unexpected ghost may just convince her that love can exist.

My thoughts: Overall, I liked it. It was cute but also pretty slow. I thought it touched on some difficult topics really well: grief, love, loss, infidelity, broken trust, self-confidence, being unique, family drama, self-fulfillment. My initial reaction to the paranormal/ghost element was annoyance but it actually all pulled together well. I enjoyed the narrator and thought she did a great job with it. I do feel like I lost some bits of the story as it went along because I’m terrible with focusing on audiobooks, so I may ultimately read this one as well.

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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emotional medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5

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emotional funny hopeful medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

My thoughts while reading: Well, fuck another book that’s gotten me tearing up.

I swear if there isn’t a twist at the end where the editor isn’t dead but is just in a coma I’m gonna be pissed.

Also, fuck Lee the thing he did is one of my biggest fears as a writer. I Love Mayor 10/10 best boy. What’s with people's fascination with big hands? Like seriously why? Also, the climbing him like a tree comment. I could never answer the question of who my book boyfriend was but Ben might fit that for me. I just love Florence’s family I feel like I could easily fit in and breathe. Smiles all around because of this man. This is 100% going to be my first 5-star romance of the year and possibly the only one of the year. This low-key made me believe in love again. I didn’t think I lost my belief in it until I read this and shit. Blinking away tears constantly and need to go out and buy a physical copy. I don’t care for sex scenes so I was kind of happy that there was only kind of one and the… I honestly don’t know how to describe it. But, it not actually being physical and it just being Ben telling Florence what he wanted to do didn’t bother me. Called the twist. Happy tears.

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