laurenabeth's review
4.0
Graphic: Grief, Death of parent, Death, Mental illness, Toxic relationship, and Panic attacks/disorders
Moderate: Gun violence, Pregnancy, Classism, Racism, War, Suicidal thoughts, Racial slurs, Car accident, and Bullying
Minor: Drug use, Stalking, Pandemic/Epidemic, Miscarriage, Gaslighting, and Alcohol
at806's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Misogyny, Stalking, Suicidal thoughts, Death of parent, Mental illness, Racism, War, Death, Kidnapping, Violence, Bullying, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Animal death, Car accident, Miscarriage, Drug use, Gaslighting, Grief, and Panic attacks/disorders
sarah_hutchins's review
4.0
Graphic: Grief
Moderate: Car accident, Death, War, Islamophobia, and Stalking
Minor: Sexism, Torture, Colonisation, Suicidal thoughts, Mental illness, Misogyny, Racism, and Panic attacks/disorders
hannahcstocks's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Racial slurs, Abandonment, Xenophobia, Violence, Drug abuse, Sexual content, Misogyny, Injury/Injury detail, Stalking, Classism, Alcohol, Pregnancy, Cultural appropriation, Child abuse, Bullying, Toxic relationship, Suicidal thoughts, Emotional abuse, Drug use, Death of parent, Death, Racism, Panic attacks/disorders, Mental illness, Gaslighting, Colonisation, War, Murder, and Miscarriage
kim_lommaert's review
4.0
Graphic: Death of parent and War
Moderate: Racism and Stalking
Minor: Alcohol, Drug use, Miscarriage, and Suicidal thoughts
julesvision's review against another edition
4.25
Minor: Stalking, Drug use, Suicidal thoughts, and Suicide
ashbooks5's review
4.5
I think that Harry is a deeply emotional person who has not been allowed to show or share that emotion in both public and privately among his family and I think that can do a number on a person. When he receives the news that his mother has died, no one hugs him or really comforts him. He is expected to show that infamous British stiff upper lip. I was shocked to find that for most of his life, Prince Harry thought that his mother faked her death and intended to resurface in the future. Every day he thought that he would receive a call from his mother who would tell him where to meet her. Reading about this was heartbreaking.
The first section of the book recounts how Harry acted out a lot in his teens and twenties after his mother's death. Some of these stories are hilarious such as his encounter with shrooms at Courteney Cox's house and how he had one of his school friends shave his head (I cackled) but some were also definitely disappointing like his decision to dress up as a Nazi officer to attend a costume party. I actually remember seeing those pictures and being highly disappointed in him as he was my "favorite" prince of the two.
The military section of the book was kind of boring but I appreciated it because Harry was allowed to be himself completely in the British army. Also, his position was revealed numerous times in the press when he was serving in the military in Afghanistan, and I am surprised whoever did this wasn't arrested because he ended up being targeted.
The last section was all about his love story with Meghan Markle and I loved it. (I may have thrived on the fact that I got married within a few months of this royal couple.) I am appalled at the treatment of Meghan Markle by both the British and American press. I think we can all know why she's been getting such a different treatment but there are those who pretend to not see the rampant racism. It is for this reason that Harry asked to take a step back from royal service which ended up leading to them basically being booted from the royal family (with no security, might I add).
Other things I took away from the book:
- Harry's frostbitten...um...nether-regions after his exploit to the North Pole (I wish I could say I didn't laugh buuuuuut)
- The anger of his family when Harry speaks against the press
- How much Prince William (and Kate Middleton) needs to get over himself
- No like seriously...
- Harry's love of Botswana and his work with conservation and also his work with veterans
- How much of a boss Meghan Markle is
- My happiness when Harry started therapy
All in all, I enjoyed Spare. I wish all of the best for Harry and Meghan. Honestly, I'm happy for them both because they're living away from the limelight and as privately as they can.
Graphic: Cursing, Gaslighting, Car accident, Death, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Death of parent, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Pregnancy, Drug use, Stalking, Toxic relationship, and War
kbairbooks's review
4.0
Graphic: Alcohol, Misogyny, War, Abandonment, Bullying, Panic attacks/disorders, Stalking, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Grief, Hate crime, Mental illness, Miscarriage, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Classism, Death of parent, Drug use, Pregnancy, Racism, Car accident, and Racial slurs
Minor: Pandemic/Epidemic
nickitaylor915's review
4.0
Spare by Prince Harry is a memoir that offers a unique and insightful perspective on the life of a member of the royal family. The book is well-written and engaging, and Prince Harry's candid and honest approach to his storytelling is refreshing. While the book does not delve into the more scandalous aspects of his life, it does provide a fascinating glimpse into the inner workings of the royal family and the challenges that come with being a public figure. The memoir is also a powerful exploration of grief and loss, and the ways in which Prince Harry has coped with the death of his mother. Overall, Spare is a compelling and thought-provoking read that is sure to appeal to fans of the royal family and those interested in the challenges of celebrity culture.
The memoir covers a wide range of topics, from Prince Harry's childhood and his relationship with his mother, to his experiences in the military and his work with various charities. Throughout the book, Prince Harry is open and honest about the challenges he has faced, including his struggles with mental health and his decision to step back from his royal duties. While the book is not a tell-all, it does provide a fascinating glimpse into the life of a royal, and the ways in which Prince Harry has navigated the challenges of his position. The memoir is also a powerful exploration of grief and loss, and the ways in which Prince Harry has coped with the death of his mother. Overall, Spare is a well-written and engaging memoir that is sure to appeal to a wide range of readers.
Also, this book is very powerful on audiobook! So, please get the audiobook if you have the chance!
Graphic: Racism and Death of parent
Moderate: Stalking
alykate's review
4.0
Moderate: Grief, Bullying, Miscarriage, Panic attacks/disorders, Death of parent, Racial slurs, Pregnancy, Alcohol, Drug use, Racism, Stalking, and Suicidal thoughts