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Французские дети не плюются едой. Секреты воспитания из Парижа by Памела Друкерман, Pamela Druckerman
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emotional
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informative
inspiring
reflective
fast-paced
5.0
I heard about this book from someone I follow online and was immediately intrigued.
"Bringing Up Bebe" is a nonfiction book that follows one American journalist as she raises her children in France. Pamela's husband is Parisian, and the pair moved to France to begin their lives. After having her daughter, Pamela learned quickly that the French approach to parenting is entirely different compared to Americans. Motherhood itself is treated entirely differently as well. This book presents some of the highlights Pamela learned during her first few years of motherhood.
One of the topics that interested me the most in this book was the discussions on food. Children are not fed a different "kid friendly" diet, they are presented the same food their parents are eating, in the same way the adults are eating. If the child does not want to eat that item, they do not have to, but they will not be given a different food. I love this idea that there is one meal, and the family ALL eat together. I think this gives children the opportunity to explore better foods earlier on, and they develop into "better" eaters overall.
Another notable topic was the discussion surrounding sleep. French babies tend to sleep through the night by a few months old because their parents know how to read their cues. I am sure for a new parent it is hard at first to discern between different baby cries, but the French have mastered the art of knowing when a baby needs soothed back to sleep and when baby just woke up for a moment between sleep cycles.
One section that had me screaming "yes" was when the author was comparing French children specifically to New York City parenting in regard to tutors and after school activities. One French mother the author talked to pulled her child out of activities because it did not fit into her schedule, which is not uncommon. Something that has become very common in America is this idea of competitive parenting and constantly having your child tutored in obscure topics. A child only gets to be a child for a very short time, so shouldn't they just get to enjoy it?
I do not think there is one right way to parent, but I really resonated with this book and the ideals that French parenting presents.
"Bringing Up Bebe" is a nonfiction book that follows one American journalist as she raises her children in France. Pamela's husband is Parisian, and the pair moved to France to begin their lives. After having her daughter, Pamela learned quickly that the French approach to parenting is entirely different compared to Americans. Motherhood itself is treated entirely differently as well. This book presents some of the highlights Pamela learned during her first few years of motherhood.
One of the topics that interested me the most in this book was the discussions on food. Children are not fed a different "kid friendly" diet, they are presented the same food their parents are eating, in the same way the adults are eating. If the child does not want to eat that item, they do not have to, but they will not be given a different food. I love this idea that there is one meal, and the family ALL eat together. I think this gives children the opportunity to explore better foods earlier on, and they develop into "better" eaters overall.
Another notable topic was the discussion surrounding sleep. French babies tend to sleep through the night by a few months old because their parents know how to read their cues. I am sure for a new parent it is hard at first to discern between different baby cries, but the French have mastered the art of knowing when a baby needs soothed back to sleep and when baby just woke up for a moment between sleep cycles.
One section that had me screaming "yes" was when the author was comparing French children specifically to New York City parenting in regard to tutors and after school activities. One French mother the author talked to pulled her child out of activities because it did not fit into her schedule, which is not uncommon. Something that has become very common in America is this idea of competitive parenting and constantly having your child tutored in obscure topics. A child only gets to be a child for a very short time, so shouldn't they just get to enjoy it?
I do not think there is one right way to parent, but I really resonated with this book and the ideals that French parenting presents.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Pregnancy
Minor: Toxic friendship and Classism
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