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The Giver by Lois Lowry

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mikathereviewer's review against another edition

reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

The Giver is about a society that has strict rules and prefers 'sameness' over 'difference' and 'change'. Everything needs to be the same and everything gets assigned to you. Your professon, love interested even your children gets assigned to you. There is no freedom of choice as there is also no freedom of expression. Jonas receives memories from the Giver that no one else's holds.

At first I was excited to read this book, the premise sounded interesting and I saw that quite a lot have read this book. I liked many things, for instance how The Giver and Jonas formed a relationship that was characterised by kidness and understanding. They bonded through these memories they shared. Another thing that was interesting to see was how Jonas reacted to the memories he received. The way his mind and behaviour changed.
I also liked how the new things (like seeing beyond) was described to us readers, giving the feeling like we experienced it for the first time as well. While I read about the things that Jonas and also the rest of the people didn't know of as they didn't have this memory and therefore knowledge I was shocked. I couldn't imagine how one could lose that much. While reading I learnt how selfish the society was to burden the Giver with all memories and not wanting to have these memories as well. That made the Giver feel very lonely, as he had no one to share his feelings about. I felt sad for him, especially as to how his behaviour when he was sad was described.

Some afternoons The Giver sent him away without training. Jonas knew, on days when he arrived to find The Giver hunched over, rocking his body slightly back and forth, his face pale, that he would be sent away.
“Go,” The Giver would tell him tensely. “I’m in pain today. Come back tomorrow.”

At some moments the writing style delivered the feeling one should feel while reading it good enough, but I was bothered how the book lacked any depth. The premise of this book made me think that there will be a lot of feelings, especially for the reader while reading. This didn't happen and in general I felt after I finished now this book, as if something was missing. I wished there would have been more to it, especially as the ending felt rushed too. The ending left me dissatisfied, I expected something else and I think that it was the wrong choice to end this book like this.
+ the plot twists weren't shocking to me, as they were hinted on multiple times before they were revealed.

Even though the concept/idea behind this book had so much potential it wasn't executed. The writing style was beautiful and in some moments I did feel sad (mainly for the Giver), but I didn't enjoy it as much as I hoped for.

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gandalf_a's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging emotional hopeful mysterious reflective sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A

4.75

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mitta_girl452's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful inspiring mysterious reflective sad fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.5

I just finished re-reading this book after I read it when I was maybe 11 or 12?
It's good book with a unique idea and setting that is really timeless.
This book is very interesting with is dialogue about emotion, pain and choice in feeling. It talks about how pain, sadness and anger - all those 'bad' emotions - and happiness, love and joy, - all the 'good' emotions - are intertwined and cannot be separated. There is no way to feel only the 'good' or 'bad' emotions. If you have emotions, you have to feel both.
The people in this community, they don't feel anything, their emotions are dulled, their relationships unfulfilling, but they have no way of knowing that, because they have nothing to compare it to.
For everyone, emotion is something that is so core to us, it is our drive and gives us reasoning and motivation to do things. This community don't have that, and it's very interesting to compare them and the way they live to modern society.
Also brought up is choice. People in this society don't have serious choices. They can't choose their jobs, or their spouses or even their children. Everything is given to them, and they take what they get. Jonas chooses to have choice, but this comes at the cost of the stability, peacefulness and ease of his previous life. This fits alongside modern discussions of free will and responsibility of actions.
Some things I think this book could improve on is length. This book is rather short, and if it was longer, characters could be more fleshed out and developed. Characters like Rosemary, who we barely learn about, could be expanded on, and we could see the actual impact of her actions.
Jonas needs more time to decide he wants to defy the Elders and change the life the people of the community live. When I read about him deciding to do that, it didn't make sense to me, as he didn't really seem to have much reason or motivation to do it.
But that is my only real issue with this book. Other than that, this book is a timeless classic that I would definitely recommend.

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robin_reads's review against another edition

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dark emotional mysterious medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated

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building_a_bookdom's review against another edition

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reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.75

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thebookfetishist's review against another edition

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challenging dark hopeful informative inspiring mysterious reflective sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Plot
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.75

Objectively speaking, a very well written book, it's just that I subjectively did not enjoy it much. Just not my type of book. Still, a classic that should absolutely be given a try, because of its many important lessons and reflective food's for thought.

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