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Wanting Mor by Rukhsana Khan

dollhousebooks's review against another edition

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4.0

I read this for a class I’m in, Multicultural Resources for Youth, in my Library & Information Science masters program. It was a compelling and poignant story aimed toward young readers that was also easy to read. I enjoyed learning about Jameela’s life, culture, and religion despite the tragedies she endures. 4.5 stars.

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4.0

I appreciated the view into another culture, and there was something about the rhythm of this story that soothed even as Jameela faces challenge after challenge. On the one hand, I liked that this was not a story of her having to compromise her beliefs and what her mother taught her, but I was very frustrated by how her obsession with surface-level appearances, both in terms of denying her own split lip and how others wear their head coverings, remained. The part at the end where a passing boy gropes Zeba and Jameela thinks about how she deserves it for not covering up more disgusted me. The narrative almost seems to posit her lack of critical thinking as a virtue, so while I agree with the message that being a good person trumps pettiness and vanity, Jameela's constant judgement of how others look and passive aggressive delight in others being brought down a peg end up coming across as hypocritical. I don't want her to be a doormat, but I do want her to own up to her own foibles rather than retreat into an unrealistically simplistic worldview all the time.

cstrauel's review against another edition

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4.0

Nice story

thisisalexw's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.25

kariadams's review against another edition

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3.0

I liked this book because it showed the reality of a young girl in Afghanistan shortly after 9/11. I thought the vocabulary was a bit challenging, I found that I had to continually look at the dictionary in the back. I would give it a 3.5 if the option existed.

nakiacookauthor's review against another edition

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5.0

Heart-wrenching. I had to put this down a couple of times because I felt anguish for Jameela. I finally became brave enough to continue and I'm glad that I did. The ending left me with hope.

tabularasablog's review against another edition

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3.0

Yet another time that I will say - ratings are inadequate. This book was a great example of what it was. But I'm not built for realistic fiction and this was a little too simple for my taste. I picked it up at the school library though, and I believe it will and should get many happy readers there. A quick, straightforward read, but deeper than it looks with a lot of scope for reflection..

yana_26's review against another edition

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fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes

katyjean81's review against another edition

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4.0

Overall, I liked this book. It is reminds me of a Thousand Splendid Suns but for a younger audience. I appreciated that the author took the time at the end of the book to explain the background for her story, which stemmed from a "report issued by Afghanistan's department of orphanages". Additionally, she acknowledged the women who helped her vet the story for accuracy and cultural authenticity, who are from Kabul and Khandahar. There is an excellent glossary at the end, which I wish I ahd thought to look for early on.

This book also strikes me as enabling text in accordance with Dr. Alfred Tatum's work. While it is not a book tailored towards lives of African American teenage males, his population of interest, this story is an excellent example of a book which shows a marginalized main character in the midst of a seemingly hopeless situation able to pull through as the result of self-reliance, dogged perseverance, good decision making and education.

The main character Jameela is not without fault and is not always completely likeable, which endeared me to her all the more. I believe she is a character with whom American children could connect because while she is living a life completely different from the experiences of most American children, she deals with loss, love, and difficult friendships, common human experiences. For example, upon arriving in the orphanage, she struggles with the power structure which exists in the friendships amongst the other orphans. While she eventually earns her place among the other orphans through her actions, she is not perfect. Some books would make her automatically the nicest girl who is kind to everyone, but Jameela is actually still unkind to a young orphan girl named Arwa. I found this to be a more realistic portrayal of adolescent relationships.

This book is heavy, touching on drug abuse, war, adult drinking, religion, personal identity and more. None of it is glorified, and I believe for an interested upper middle school age student or lower high school student, this would be an excellent selection. I also see it working as part of a reading ladder related to either contemporary Afghanistan, Muslim related fiction, or women around the world. Since it is such a thick text with many layers for discussion, I also see its potential for a literature circle book.

***Added***

After some additional thought, another thing I like about this book is how it dealt with femininity in the Arab world. Sometimes when I read books about cultures different than my own, I feel that authors (particularly American authors writing about global cultures) are treating these cultures and communities with respect until there is something about that culture which offends or displeases them. I enjoyed the passages where Jameela discussed her wearing of the Chadri (or Burka) because the author treated the issue with a deep respect for the character's culture, rather than treating it as a negative or backward characteristic of a culture which is in need of remedy. Of course, as Ms. Khan is Pakistani (not Afghan as is her main character), her cultural background may have made it easier for her to portray this cultural component with this sort of deep respect rather than respect "to a point". I am not an expert on books with Muslim themes, but my limited experience as well as my knowledge related to multicultural and global literature made me feel that Ms. Khan did an excellent job of writing clearly about an issue which can spark heated conversations in the Western World.

erine's review against another edition

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4.0

Jameela's story is heartbreaking, yet it is so lovely to see her grow and learn and navigate her way through a troubled world. Ultimately, her story is one of empowerment and hope and opens a window onto modern-day Afghanistan. This was another book that swept me up after the first few pages and kept me going until the end.
Readers who like strong female characters, enjoy learning about other cultures (or reading about their own, depending on the reader), and tend toward realistic fiction might enjoy this. Those who like orphan-type stories where the child has to succeed or fail on his or her own and live by his or her wits might like this, too. It is based on a true story, so this might be a good crossover book from biography.
Child Abuse. Drugs. Drinking. Prayer.