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r_j_setser's review
4.0
Clearly, I am not the intended audience for the book, seeing as how Iām neither a dad nor a son, but I like trying to find family books to recommend to my friends. Plus, my husband and I both hope to have kids one day so this book may benefit my husband one day.
I really like the conversational tone of this book. Itās written from a dad to his son, so it can be read aloud to your son and sound totally natural. There are questions sprinkled throughout each chapter to break up the reading and allow the opportunity to engage into some conversation that has substance. I think, if done well and completely, it would probably be a 30 minute session, including the activities, Bible reading, devotional, and conversations. It could be up to an hour or more if the conversations and activities are longer though, so thatās where it would be up to you and your son.
I really like the topics that were chosen and focused on, they are a bit different than Iāve seen in the parental books Iāve read before. In addition to the main topics you will almost always find in father/son books (girls, friends, and sex), there are chapters dedicated to generosity, money, neighborly/godly love, both the church family and biological family, how to handle disappointment, money, and more. This book is definitely a tool to be used to start conversations about life in general, to develop a relationship. Not necessarily a ātrainingā or āteachingā workbook for you to teach your son only. Itās purpose is to get you and your son talking, about all areas of life, and I really liked that. Itās not preachy to the son, and some of the questions for dads will require some vulnerability on the dadās part.
I thought each topic was handled very well and are enlightening. Each topic is backed up with scripture and broken down by how God intended it, how sin messed it up, how Jesus took the sin for us and handled it Himself, and how we should live in Jesusā example now. I thought that pattern was really good and incredibly applicable to all areas that were discussed. I will actually be using that pattern in my own Bible study just because I think it helps to understand how to apply the scriptures.
The only thing that I really think was missing is in the Girls chapter. As much as I love (and agree!) that dads should be training their boys to be respectful and protective of girls, I would have liked to see a warning to the sons to beware of manipulative and abusive girls and how to handle those situations in particular. One thing Iām seeing more and more as I get older is the affects of boys being taught to be gentlemanly, respectful, and passive when it comes to girls, and many girls are taught to ābeat up any boy who hurts youā. In the situations Iāve been in with my friends over the years, and as I watch my baby brothers (okay, theyāre not babies anymoreā¦but still) grow up and be their gentlemen, respectful selves, girls are mean. They play with feelings and know how to bring a guy down without lifting a finger, itās all words. And boys need to know how to handle situations in which girls are just plain mean and they need to know the difference between a disagreement and a girl playing with a guysā feelings. So I would have liked to see a section in the Girls chapter to open up the conversation on that, just because I donāt think itās a topic that is addressed oftenāif ever.
But overall, I do think this is a great asset to have on the bookshelves. Itās easy to read and I think it would be a great Bible study for a group of fathers and sons to do, but even more beneficial if done one-on-one. I give it 4 out of 5 stars.
I received this book from the author/publisher via NetGalley for the purpose of this review. All comments and opinions are entirely my own.
This is a LiteratureApproved (.com) Review.
I really like the conversational tone of this book. Itās written from a dad to his son, so it can be read aloud to your son and sound totally natural. There are questions sprinkled throughout each chapter to break up the reading and allow the opportunity to engage into some conversation that has substance. I think, if done well and completely, it would probably be a 30 minute session, including the activities, Bible reading, devotional, and conversations. It could be up to an hour or more if the conversations and activities are longer though, so thatās where it would be up to you and your son.
I really like the topics that were chosen and focused on, they are a bit different than Iāve seen in the parental books Iāve read before. In addition to the main topics you will almost always find in father/son books (girls, friends, and sex), there are chapters dedicated to generosity, money, neighborly/godly love, both the church family and biological family, how to handle disappointment, money, and more. This book is definitely a tool to be used to start conversations about life in general, to develop a relationship. Not necessarily a ātrainingā or āteachingā workbook for you to teach your son only. Itās purpose is to get you and your son talking, about all areas of life, and I really liked that. Itās not preachy to the son, and some of the questions for dads will require some vulnerability on the dadās part.
I thought each topic was handled very well and are enlightening. Each topic is backed up with scripture and broken down by how God intended it, how sin messed it up, how Jesus took the sin for us and handled it Himself, and how we should live in Jesusā example now. I thought that pattern was really good and incredibly applicable to all areas that were discussed. I will actually be using that pattern in my own Bible study just because I think it helps to understand how to apply the scriptures.
The only thing that I really think was missing is in the Girls chapter. As much as I love (and agree!) that dads should be training their boys to be respectful and protective of girls, I would have liked to see a warning to the sons to beware of manipulative and abusive girls and how to handle those situations in particular. One thing Iām seeing more and more as I get older is the affects of boys being taught to be gentlemanly, respectful, and passive when it comes to girls, and many girls are taught to ābeat up any boy who hurts youā. In the situations Iāve been in with my friends over the years, and as I watch my baby brothers (okay, theyāre not babies anymoreā¦but still) grow up and be their gentlemen, respectful selves, girls are mean. They play with feelings and know how to bring a guy down without lifting a finger, itās all words. And boys need to know how to handle situations in which girls are just plain mean and they need to know the difference between a disagreement and a girl playing with a guysā feelings. So I would have liked to see a section in the Girls chapter to open up the conversation on that, just because I donāt think itās a topic that is addressed oftenāif ever.
But overall, I do think this is a great asset to have on the bookshelves. Itās easy to read and I think it would be a great Bible study for a group of fathers and sons to do, but even more beneficial if done one-on-one. I give it 4 out of 5 stars.
I received this book from the author/publisher via NetGalley for the purpose of this review. All comments and opinions are entirely my own.
This is a LiteratureApproved (.com) Review.
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