books_and_planners's review against another edition
5.0
I really wasn't sure where she was going with this story at first. It seemed to jump around & that parts were irrelevant, but they weren't! When it all started coming together I really enjoyed this plot. Highly recommended. I listened to this on audible & the narrator was great.
absurtiddy's review against another edition
emotional
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
1.0
hazelmort's review against another edition
emotional
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.0
krissasaur's review against another edition
3.0
Oh boy, where do I start? Naked Truth? I hated this book.
Then when getting to know Lily he never stops being a red flag? Lily is VERY aware of what abuse is due to watching her mom go through it, so how the fuck did she fall in love with this man. There wasn't a single scene with him that wasn't a red flag? And I get it, maybe the message here is it happens to you without you knowing it and then you get stuck in it..... SURE. BUT. That doesn't work for me in this book. The fact that Lily had a head on her shoulders to only let him hurt her, what? 3 times? And none were "THAT" serious? [1] Just makes it all the harder for me to believe she got with him, and fell in love with him in the first place. She meets him on a roof destroying furniture that doesn't even belong to him in a fit of rage. Like. That isn't normal? Not only that, he then forces himself on her and begs her to fuck him. He clearly doesn't understand boundaries?
[1] Okay, back to this. He obviously hurt her badly each time, but the first time he just shoved her and she fell on the corner of the counter, the second time he shoved her and she fell down the stairs.... third time was the most violent he was with her... But even then all he really did was head butt her which could have also been a "mistake." Not that I want any woman to go through worse, but I wish colleen would have had the guts to make him actually raise his hand to her.
My issue with this is that I find it really hard to believe someone who ignored nonstop red flags for over a year would be able to say "wow, he HURT ME, this isn't okay." after these "mild" instances. The author TRIES to dance around it, and TRIES to make Lily seem like she is making excuses..... but Lily never really does. Sure lily stays with him, but she is very headstrong on if it happens again she will leave. 3 strikes and you are out. Sure. That is how these cycles start. Excuses like that happen in real life.... but I just don't believe it at all with how Lily was written. I just don't believe with how Lily is described all through the book, through the Ellen diaries, everything, Lily would have even been with this man in the first place? It just doesn't feel RIGHT to me and I can't place it.
Also I feel like now is a good time to mention I have been in a few DV relationships. I was young and naïve, and didn't know the flags. Lily knows the flags, and tbh you don't even have to experience DV to see Ryles flags. LIKE. IDK HOW TO EXPLAIN WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY BUT IT JUST ANNOYED ME SO MUCH. I really hope at least one person reading this understands what I am trying to say, because it isn't that I don't think strong women can get stuck in situations like this, its just that I don't believe this book was an accurate portrayal of how this happens. From day one LILY KNEW. SO HOW?
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On to my second complaint, Atlas. Why did he need to be in the book at all? Sure he's sweet and whatever, but he felt like he existed just as a consolation prize for Lily in the end? He felt like he existed only to give Ryle a reason to get mad. Also the fact that he existed as a knight in shining armor to save Lily in the end kind of ruined so much for me as well. I wish this could have been more about Lily's strength as a woman, alone. She didn't need him.
Onto my third issue, convenience. Holy hell is this book BUILT off of convenience. Lily CONVENIENTLY is able to open a successful flower shop, and Alyssa CONVENIENTLY starts to work for Lily, and she is CONVENIENTLY too rich to even need a job, and ends up CONVENIENTLY being Ryles sister? OK. And then they CONVENIENTLY go to the restaurant Atlus works at who CONVENIENTLY turns out to be the owner, and he CONVENIENTLY sees her injuries. Atlus CONVENIENTLY sees Lily when he's about to kill himself which makes him stop. Lilt is also CONVENIENTLY pregnant the moment she decides to leave Ryle... and the most CONVINIENT AT ALL? Her water fucking breaks and she managed to give birth all in the span of about 20 minutes. Wow. Lucky her.
+ so much more.
Fourth. Why the happy ending? Sure she leaves him, but its a HAPPY ENDING. hsgdkjgfhsldfghls It is fine that lily is happy, but why is Ryle also technically happy? he still gets to hang out with Lily and be her friend.. ALSO UNSUPERVISED VISISTS? WHY IS SHE DROPPING HER BABY GIRL OFF AT RYLES HOUSE? ALONE? ksajdhlahkDLKAH FLKHDALKDJS F;Alds 'f
Anyway, I should stop ranting. This book drove me insane. I gave it 2 stars cause the writing. It was easy to read, and it wasn't boring. So it has that going for it.
Spoiler
My first issue with the book is how the second you meet Ryle, you know he is going to be an abusive bastard. Red flags off the literal ROOF.Then when getting to know Lily he never stops being a red flag? Lily is VERY aware of what abuse is due to watching her mom go through it, so how the fuck did she fall in love with this man. There wasn't a single scene with him that wasn't a red flag? And I get it, maybe the message here is it happens to you without you knowing it and then you get stuck in it..... SURE. BUT. That doesn't work for me in this book. The fact that Lily had a head on her shoulders to only let him hurt her, what? 3 times? And none were "THAT" serious? [1] Just makes it all the harder for me to believe she got with him, and fell in love with him in the first place. She meets him on a roof destroying furniture that doesn't even belong to him in a fit of rage. Like. That isn't normal? Not only that, he then forces himself on her and begs her to fuck him. He clearly doesn't understand boundaries?
[1] Okay, back to this. He obviously hurt her badly each time, but the first time he just shoved her and she fell on the corner of the counter, the second time he shoved her and she fell down the stairs.... third time was the most violent he was with her... But even then all he really did was head butt her which could have also been a "mistake." Not that I want any woman to go through worse, but I wish colleen would have had the guts to make him actually raise his hand to her.
My issue with this is that I find it really hard to believe someone who ignored nonstop red flags for over a year would be able to say "wow, he HURT ME, this isn't okay." after these "mild" instances. The author TRIES to dance around it, and TRIES to make Lily seem like she is making excuses..... but Lily never really does. Sure lily stays with him, but she is very headstrong on if it happens again she will leave. 3 strikes and you are out. Sure. That is how these cycles start. Excuses like that happen in real life.... but I just don't believe it at all with how Lily was written. I just don't believe with how Lily is described all through the book, through the Ellen diaries, everything, Lily would have even been with this man in the first place? It just doesn't feel RIGHT to me and I can't place it.
Also I feel like now is a good time to mention I have been in a few DV relationships. I was young and naïve, and didn't know the flags. Lily knows the flags, and tbh you don't even have to experience DV to see Ryles flags. LIKE. IDK HOW TO EXPLAIN WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY BUT IT JUST ANNOYED ME SO MUCH. I really hope at least one person reading this understands what I am trying to say, because it isn't that I don't think strong women can get stuck in situations like this, its just that I don't believe this book was an accurate portrayal of how this happens. From day one LILY KNEW. SO HOW?
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On to my second complaint, Atlas. Why did he need to be in the book at all? Sure he's sweet and whatever, but he felt like he existed just as a consolation prize for Lily in the end? He felt like he existed only to give Ryle a reason to get mad. Also the fact that he existed as a knight in shining armor to save Lily in the end kind of ruined so much for me as well. I wish this could have been more about Lily's strength as a woman, alone. She didn't need him.
Onto my third issue, convenience. Holy hell is this book BUILT off of convenience. Lily CONVENIENTLY is able to open a successful flower shop, and Alyssa CONVENIENTLY starts to work for Lily, and she is CONVENIENTLY too rich to even need a job, and ends up CONVENIENTLY being Ryles sister? OK. And then they CONVENIENTLY go to the restaurant Atlus works at who CONVENIENTLY turns out to be the owner, and he CONVENIENTLY sees her injuries. Atlus CONVENIENTLY sees Lily when he's about to kill himself which makes him stop. Lilt is also CONVENIENTLY pregnant the moment she decides to leave Ryle... and the most CONVINIENT AT ALL? Her water fucking breaks and she managed to give birth all in the span of about 20 minutes. Wow. Lucky her.
+ so much more.
Fourth. Why the happy ending? Sure she leaves him, but its a HAPPY ENDING. hsgdkjgfhsldfghls It is fine that lily is happy, but why is Ryle also technically happy? he still gets to hang out with Lily and be her friend.. ALSO UNSUPERVISED VISISTS? WHY IS SHE DROPPING HER BABY GIRL OFF AT RYLES HOUSE? ALONE? ksajdhlahkDLKAH FLKHDALKDJS F;Alds 'f
Anyway, I should stop ranting. This book drove me insane. I gave it 2 stars cause the writing. It was easy to read, and it wasn't boring. So it has that going for it.
clara_g331's review against another edition
challenging
dark
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Content Warnings
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual content, and Toxic relationship
trlewisbay's review against another edition
4.0
This book took me by such a surprise. I didn’t not expect what the story would turn out to be. It was beautiful, tragic, mesmerizing and definitely kept me turning the page to find out what was going to happen. When I finally got to the end I was openly weeping. The title explanation!? Wow.
literareally's review against another edition
5.0
I am in awe of what this book embodies. How hard it would have been to write about this. This one open minds and hearts.
I love so many parts of this. I love all the characters. I fell in love, hurt, hope, cry and bleed with them. I love the whole book!
I love so many parts of this. I love all the characters. I fell in love, hurt, hope, cry and bleed with them. I love the whole book!
margsvault's review against another edition
3.0
Update on 2nd read two years later (2023): NAHHHHHH LMAOOOO
In all the books I have read and loved, I would have written in capital letters about all the things I feel, all the things I like about my journey in reading it.
But now, after I've finished It Ends With Us, my capital letters don't even have meaning anymore.
I am emotionally drained. I finished reading it at 2 AM today and I was a mess. I quickly picked up my phone, wrote a long chat to my friend, recommending it to her. I said, "I'm sorry I bother you this late but you have to read this. This is more than just a romance, Trace. This is life-changing." I ended up sleeping at 3 AM with a heavy feeling inside my chest. I feel everything and nothing at the same time.
Now, I'm writing this at exactly 7AM. Let me tell you once fact: I never wake up this early after I read a book... and that says something, partly because right at the moment I wake up, the first thing that comes up to my mind is It Ends With Us: Lily, Ryle, Atlas, Alyssa and Marshall, Lily's mother, all that happened throughout the book, that ending which left me crying and sobbing, the life lessons and emotional turmoil I was feeling... This book hurt me good and left me devastated... but alive. More than alive because now I live with this book forever.
Today I'll probably spend my day writing many, many things about It Ends With Us, and I'll start with a review in my blog. And then, I will write in my personal blog about what I have learned throughout my journey with this book. I'll write recommendation posts to everyone and at the end, I will write an email to the author. Because she has just changed my life.
So, guys, if me writing a long ass recommendation letter to my friend at 2AM and then waking up early to write this all in Goodreads don't convince you to read this book, I don't know what else will.
In all the books I have read and loved, I would have written in capital letters about all the things I feel, all the things I like about my journey in reading it.
But now, after I've finished It Ends With Us, my capital letters don't even have meaning anymore.
I am emotionally drained. I finished reading it at 2 AM today and I was a mess. I quickly picked up my phone, wrote a long chat to my friend, recommending it to her. I said, "I'm sorry I bother you this late but you have to read this. This is more than just a romance, Trace. This is life-changing." I ended up sleeping at 3 AM with a heavy feeling inside my chest. I feel everything and nothing at the same time.
Now, I'm writing this at exactly 7AM. Let me tell you once fact: I never wake up this early after I read a book... and that says something, partly because right at the moment I wake up, the first thing that comes up to my mind is It Ends With Us: Lily, Ryle, Atlas, Alyssa and Marshall, Lily's mother, all that happened throughout the book, that ending which left me crying and sobbing, the life lessons and emotional turmoil I was feeling... This book hurt me good and left me devastated... but alive. More than alive because now I live with this book forever.
Today I'll probably spend my day writing many, many things about It Ends With Us, and I'll start with a review in my blog. And then, I will write in my personal blog about what I have learned throughout my journey with this book. I'll write recommendation posts to everyone and at the end, I will write an email to the author. Because she has just changed my life.
So, guys, if me writing a long ass recommendation letter to my friend at 2AM and then waking up early to write this all in Goodreads don't convince you to read this book, I don't know what else will.