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c410berry's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Minor: Child death, Domestic abuse, Miscarriage, and Suicide
quinnlaulainen's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Child death, Suicide, and Violence
mergwenthur's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
i read the journey of lily through her childhood to her old age and viewed her relationship with snow flower and how both of them developed individually and as same-olds.
set in mid-1800s i read as lily and snow flower dealt with things such as footbindings, tragedies, love, death, marriage and children.
cultural and society traditions were adapted and the challenges lily and snow flower went through were eye opening.
it was a beautiful yet tragic story which leaves you with so many emotions
Graphic: Addiction, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Body horror, Body shaming, Child abuse, Child death, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Miscarriage, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Violence, Blood, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, War, and Classism
thejediwitch's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.5
Graphic: Child abuse, Child death, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Sexism, Toxic relationship, Grief, and Pregnancy
Moderate: Body horror, Drug use, Miscarriage, Physical abuse, Suicide, Death of parent, and War
Minor: Body shaming, Suicidal thoughts, and Terminal illness
stwriter92's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Cancer, Child death, Death, Domestic abuse, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Sexism, Terminal illness, Violence, Grief, and Pregnancy
Moderate: Child abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Gore, Toxic relationship, Blood, Death of parent, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, and War
Minor: Sexual content, Suicide, and Vomit
adl2990's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Moderate: Addiction, Domestic abuse, Rape, Sexual violence, Suicide, and Pregnancy
somnimah's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Body horror, Child death, Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, and Violence
Moderate: Miscarriage, Misogyny, Sexism, and Pregnancy
Minor: Suicide and Death of parent
danajoy's review against another edition
- Strong character development? Yes
4.0
I chose this as my first novel of #asainreadathon as a book featuring an Asian character or written by an Asian author who you can relate to. Lily's womanhood is integral to this story but after completing this story I wonder if it would be more appropriate to cover the 'different' prompt. The historical nature and our cultural differences meant I cannot relate to any of her experiences other than those of close friendships becoming complicated and murky over time. It is so humbling to think about what prior generations faced and how much has changed.
This is the story of Lily's life growing up a girl in 19th century China, learning nu shu (the unique women's language) and sharing her life with her laotong, "old same", Snow Flower. It spans the women's lifetimes from their pairing as young children, through their years of foot-binding, losses of loved ones, their marriages and motherhood. It was fascinating. The bond between the girls is beautiful, they are devoted to one another.
A few content warnings that I feel I should highlight are the presence of a lot of abuse, miscarriage and mentions of suicide. I must say that my timing for this read wasn't quite ideal, in light of the current world events it was particularly difficult to hear about the outbreak of Typhoid so if you are considering reading this now and have not been handling the Covid19 situation you may want to delay it for a while.
Overall I found it a very interesting read, highly evocative of a bygone era filled with archaic traditions.
Graphic: Child abuse
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Miscarriage, and Suicide
brynn_books's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
This is a coming of age story about girls who try to grow up in China, going through all the customs and traditions necessary while also maintaining a source of friendship. This is a great story about friendship and sisters that will leave you crying.
I was not expecting this book to be so sad and leave a major impact on my life but it did.
The story tended to drag in a few places so often I was bored and just wanted something to happen but luckily the story picked up again.
All in all I would give this book a 4/5 stars. It was a really good book and I would recommend it to any girl who is coming of age and would like to learn more traditions and customs of China.
Graphic: Child abuse, Death, and Domestic abuse
Moderate: Child death, Miscarriage, and Suicide