megatsunami's review against another edition

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3.0

Useful ways to identify your child's dominant sense (auditory, visual...) and how you can use this understanding to connect with them better. I didn't read the whole book, just the introduction and the relevant sections. As a parent, I found it thought-provoking and worth reading.

A few criticisms:
- Like most people with an interesting theory, she over-applies it. Every problem is because you have a different dominant sense than your child.
- The section on how to identify your dominant sense (for adults) is not useful. It's worded like a Cosmo quiz.
- Sometimes her generalizations didn't make sense or seemed too sweeping. Like: why are tactile children necessarily rough-and-tumble? A tactile child could be low-energy or high-energy.
- Her fourth category - "taste/smell" - was really interesting to me. After reading Elaine Aron's "The Highly Sensitive Person," Dunstan's "taste/smell" kids sound like an exact category match to Aron's "highly sensitive" people. But Dunstan seems a little naive about this category to me. Like, "Oh, taste/smell people will be GREAT parents because they are just so happy about meeting other people's needs." Um, what about "Taste/smell people might find parenting difficult because their highly sensitive systems will be overloaded by demanding babies"????

simplyparticular's review against another edition

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4.0

Really interesting insights into how children process information. Picked i up at the library and am considering purchasing it for a reread when #2 gets bigger.
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