Reviews tagging 'Hate crime'

All Boys Aren't Blue, by George M. Johnson

25 reviews

parasolcrafter's review against another edition

emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

5.0

i never really know what to say abt memoirs because theyre such a raw form of storytelling and i dont want it to sound like im criticizing someones life, but this book was so raw and painful in parts that all i can really say is thank you to author and i can only hope this book falls into others peoples hands as i can see it being something a lot of people will need 💖💖💖

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Drug use, Alcohol, Grief, Sexual content, Racism, Rape, Death, Homophobia, Incest, Child abuse, Violence, Emotional abuse, Cancer, Sexual assault, Bullying, Cursing, Hate crime, Racial slurs, and Transphobia

sup3r_xn0va_maya's review against another edition

emotional reflective sad medium-paced

Book trigger warnings:

deadnaming, sexually assault, HIV/AIDS mention, hate crime, incest  

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I'm not the target audience, I'm a Black Queer women in her early thirties. This book is for YA as far as I can tell, so my opinion is below even though I'm not the target audience. Read it with a grain of salt.  

I really wanted to like this a lot more than I did but I had a few issues with this memoir. There were some really okay parts that I liked, like the informational bits. There were a lot of things a few things I didn't like, like the weird non comparisons the author makes throughout the book. I didn't like how this book felt like the author was writing into a journal. It didn't really feel all that polished. The audiobook narration was alright but very stiff. 

The cover of this book is stunning. 

The only time the author had emotion in his voice in the audiobook was when he thanked his college friends and brothers for supporting him. Other than that his narration was very dry and flat. 

The author credits Nina Simone when mentioning the controversial song, Strange Fruit, but the original singer was Billie Holiday. This was a small thing that irritated me. 

 TW - CSW (childhood sexual assault) 

Spoiler

So, chapter 11 was hard to get through because he talks about being sexually assaulted as a child by one of his relatives (I can relate). He says that being assaulted helped him figure out his sexuality and I'm not sure how to articulate the way I feel about the statement, but I don't have a good feeling about it. This chapter was basically about the author forgiving his abuser and this chapter sort of felt like an argument in favor of forgiving one's abusers. I do like how at the end of the chapter he says that survivors are never obligated to forgive their abusers, but without that little section at the end saying this, it feels as if this chapter was just pushing for survivors to forgive their abusers. The abuser is definitely centered in this chapter. Also, the author felt like he was journaling about his sexual assault so be aware.

 

At one point the author dead names his deceased trans cousin, Hope. I didn't like that at all, we as readers didn't need to know Hope's deadname. In one of the earliest chapters he talks about the importance of using one's desired name. I don't understand why he didn't cover not using one's deadname. (a non comparison)  In the same chapter he says that when he was younger he found out that his family had been calling him by his middle name (Matthew) and not his first name (George). The author goes on to compare his name situation to that of trans folk who change their names and want to be referred to as their given names and not their deadnames. His name situation was not similar enough to trans people choosing new names for him to compare the two. This section was really uncomfortable because he was trying to make a connection that wasn't really there. 

In chapter 12, he mentions the September 11th, 2001 terrorist attacks. I don't know why I thought this chapter was going to be profound, I thought maybe he had family who he lost in the attack or something. That's not what this chapter is about. It's literally about how he had a crush on a new boy at school. I don't know why he mentioned the September 11th, 2001 terrorist attacks and used it as a backdrop for him flirting with someone at school. The only thing the author says about the attacks is that everyone as his school was shocked the next day, (on Sept 12th) and that the day of there was chaos at his school. This was also an uncomfortable chapter because he just name drops September 11th, 2001 and it serves no purpose. 

I originally gave this a rating but I decided that a person's personal experience shouldn't be 
rated so I'm leaving my review up but I'm going to clear my rating.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual assault, Deadnaming, Hate crime, Homophobia, Terminal illness, Child abuse, Incest, Sexual harassment, and Transphobia

The author deadnames his deceased trans cousin several times. The author explains in detail being sexually assaulted by a relative. The author talks about a family member who passed away due to HIV/AIDS. The author talks about a family member who passed away due to a hate crime. Incest mention.

notartgarfunkel's review against another edition

emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Medical content, Racism, Injury/injury detail, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Death, Sexual content, and Homophobia

Minor: Blood, Hate crime, and Police brutality

nicolesbookreviews's review against another edition

challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.0

All Boys Aren't Blue is a young adult memoir and manifesto written by George M. Johnson. I decided to pick this book up on audio, and I think that really added to my reading experience. Johnson tells the story of their experiences coming of age as a Black, queer boy in New Jersey and how they interacted with their peers and family during this time. This book gave me much to think about and it definitely elicited some emotions out of me. With the aspects of this book that I liked, I found the organization of the book lacking and the writing leaving some to be desired. When reading memoirs, the question I ask myself is "Does the writing have je ne sais quoi that amazes me?", and this book didn't. For that reason, I am lowering the rating to be less than five stars. If you decide to pick up this book, please research content warnings.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Transphobia, Death, Bullying, Child abuse, Grief, Homophobia, and Sexual assault

Moderate: Violence, Sexual content, Terminal illness, Alcohol, Drug use, Outing, Gun violence, and Hate crime

alzi4k's review against another edition

emotional informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual assault, Homophobia, Hate crime, Racism, and Death

Moderate: Grief

Minor: Outing

cherrypiejay's review against another edition

challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced

4.0

This beautifully written book definitely comes with many content warnings for various types of SA, grooming, and trauma. 

I listened to the audiobook, lovingly narrated by the author. It’s such a gritty, raw, honest story about a queer youth finding himself, and I enjoyed every minute of it - even though some bits were tough to get through due to being quite triggering. It’s an important story that needs to be shared.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual assault, Panic attacks/disorders, Child abuse, Violence, Sexual violence, Hate crime, Grief, Toxic relationship, Suicide attempt, Sexual content, Incest, and Adult/minor relationship

Moderate: Alcohol, Domestic abuse, Cursing, and Death

lacey_wi's review against another edition

dark emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad slow-paced

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual content, Sexual assault, and Sexual harassment

Moderate: Bullying, Cultural appropriation, Hate crime, Incest, Police brutality, Racism, Alcohol, Cancer, Cursing, Death, Dysphoria, Grief, Homophobia, Outing, Sexual content, Slavery, Racial slurs, and Rape

Minor: Deadnaming, Colonisation, and Transphobia

bandysbooks's review against another edition

challenging emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring reflective fast-paced

5.0

It’s hard to rate a memoir, particularly when it’s so personal and vulnerable. This memoir reflects on a lot of difficult topics in ways that make them understandable to a large variety of people. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Bullying, Homophobia, Sexual content, Sexual assault, Injury/injury detail, Rape, Racism, and Hate crime

deadeye's review against another edition

emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced

4.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Cursing, Deadnaming, Grief, Racial slurs, Transphobia, Hate crime, Incest, Racism, Sexual content, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, Death, and Homophobia

Moderate: Dysphoria

Minor: Police brutality, Medical trauma, Misogyny, Outing, Alcohol, Drug use, and Medical content

anniereads221's review against another edition

challenging emotional informative medium-paced

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Lesbophobia, Medical content, Transphobia, Bullying, Cancer, Rape, Violence, Deadnaming, Dysphoria, Racial slurs, Sexual content, Classism, Grief, Death, Gun violence, Hate crime, Homophobia, and Racism