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fionna's review
3.0
overall, a great guide and starting point to learn about sex/sexuality/gender etc. I think this book would've been really useful to have around when I was younger for sure! however, it did feel a bit didactic at points, and the writing definitely feels a bit dated to the point where you can tell this was written by adults - although this is can be overlooked as the content is still educational!
ssdgm91's review against another edition
informative
5.0
This book is great for teens (or anyone I suppose). It covers more than the basics of physiology and safe sex. It covers body positivity, how to balance relationships and friendships, signs of abuse, and more!
kim_j_dare's review
4.0
There is so much good stuff in this book.
Authors Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan begin their Authors’ Note with, “Sex education isn’t JUST about how bodies smoosh together; it’s about learning what it means to be a human who engages with other humans. Really, sex education is relationship education, because while we’re not all going to have sex, we are all going to have relationships with the people around us. When you learn about the wide world of sex, relationships, and intimacy, you learn more about yourself and others, which helps you to be a better person and to do better by others.”
And that’s the book in a nutshell. The content is very thorough and informative. The graphic format is engaging, if sometimes a little corny. There’s great information on sexuality and gender, body image, and safe sex, AND the authors don’t shy away from conversations about porn, masturbation, and kinks. There are many penises and clitorises and breasts pictured. There’s active heterosexual and homosexual sex pictured. I’m torn on whether I should consider this for my library. I’m feeling cowardly.
Thank you, RH Graphic and NetGalley, for the advance readers copy.
Authors Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan begin their Authors’ Note with, “Sex education isn’t JUST about how bodies smoosh together; it’s about learning what it means to be a human who engages with other humans. Really, sex education is relationship education, because while we’re not all going to have sex, we are all going to have relationships with the people around us. When you learn about the wide world of sex, relationships, and intimacy, you learn more about yourself and others, which helps you to be a better person and to do better by others.”
And that’s the book in a nutshell. The content is very thorough and informative. The graphic format is engaging, if sometimes a little corny. There’s great information on sexuality and gender, body image, and safe sex, AND the authors don’t shy away from conversations about porn, masturbation, and kinks. There are many penises and clitorises and breasts pictured. There’s active heterosexual and homosexual sex pictured. I’m torn on whether I should consider this for my library. I’m feeling cowardly.
Thank you, RH Graphic and NetGalley, for the advance readers copy.
rainbowofcrazy's review
informative
inspiring
lighthearted
reflective
relaxing
fast-paced
5.0
I am obv not a teen but I adored this book. A warning that it's probably not really something you'd want to read on the bus or something because there is some cartoon nudity but nothing pornographic. Erika and Matt have created a gem of a book, covering all sorts of topics like anatomy, sexuality, gender, relationships, things to consider before having sex, if you're ready, things you can do to prepare, to topics like kinks, aftercare, even jealousy. It's informative and told in a conversational way, making it easy to digest, and not feel overwhelming.
It's not a full thorough guide to all things, but IMO a fantastic intro to relationships and sex for teens, and even a beautiful refresher for young and older adults, and they offer further resources for further research and learning. Loved this book, love her art as always. Highly recommend it!
It's not a full thorough guide to all things, but IMO a fantastic intro to relationships and sex for teens, and even a beautiful refresher for young and older adults, and they offer further resources for further research and learning. Loved this book, love her art as always. Highly recommend it!
Content Warnings
Moderate: Sexual content
eburgardt's review against another edition
funny
informative
lighthearted
reflective
fast-paced
5.0
- Honestly adorable. I’ve been interested in sex ed as a potential career path for years and this is maybe my favorite resource for teens that I’ve read
- Offers a general overview of several topics (including ones that get left out of most sex ed, like how to deal with jealousy or rejection, how to apologize, and what abuse looks like)
- Super digestible and wonderfully inclusive both in content and illustrations
- This book’s been heavily challenged/banned nationally. Cannot stress enough how invaluable a book like this is in public libraries and schools. Kids deserve books that educate and validate them
daumari's review against another edition
5.0
Much like Erika & Matthew's other graphic novels, an approachable, inclusive (not just ethnicities, genders, and sexualities but also disabilities which isn't something I see as often reflected!) book with a friendly approach to important topics like sex, romance, and consent. I think [b:Drawn to Sex Vol. 1: The Basics|38749137|Drawn to Sex Vol. 1 The Basics|Erika Moen|https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1527875921l/38749137._SY75_.jpg|60339047] and [b:Drawn to Sex: Our Bodies and Health|50891463|Drawn to Sex Our Bodies and Health|Erika Moen|https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/books/1580651632l/50891463._SY75_.jpg|75786333] are more in-depth, but Let's Talk About It takes a lighter approach, often from the perspective of vignettes where friends or partners discuss topics (which makes sense given the title). This would be more of an introduction, then, with the DtS volumes as references should your teen decide to dig deeper.
I also think it's great that LTAI takes a kind approach, especially as topics around sexuality often get flagged as taboo with fearmongering, which could make it scary for someone young to even seek out information, leading to uninformed adults and knowledge is power! The abuse checklists also are useful for examining your own behavior and those around you as well, also an important topic for interpersonal relationships.
I also think it's great that LTAI takes a kind approach, especially as topics around sexuality often get flagged as taboo with fearmongering, which could make it scary for someone young to even seek out information, leading to uninformed adults and knowledge is power! The abuse checklists also are useful for examining your own behavior and those around you as well, also an important topic for interpersonal relationships.
aclopez6's review
4.0
I will likely purchase a copy and excerpt it for my students! There are few sections that I wish had just a bit more nuance (such as the STI section and the commentary on kinks and porn), but overall, a strong resource for teens. One other note, I wish the order of the book was a little different, with more information on cementing one's relationship with oneself coming BEFORE all the information about what sex is.