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Loathe at First Sight by Suzanne Park

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slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

1.0


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challenging funny inspiring lighthearted tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

Well, if I'm being completely honest, I was slightly disappointed. But like, BARELY. I think, more than anything, the book is marketed so much for its romance that I got my hopes up and the romantic aspect fell flat for me. I wanted something that would give me butterflies, but it didn't. It is very much possible, but I have no way of knowing, that the progression of the romance is more real and natural. It is definitely a slow-burn, but the tension wasn't so hot and heavy. Part of the reason for this is that our main character, Melody, is a workaholic, but she also just has a lot going on in general. If I were her, I would really do anything in my power to avoid romantic relationships. It would be an added complication to everything she is already dealing with.

You see, Melody Joo (not Melanie, not Joon) recently started as a junior producer at Seventeen Studios, a gaming company. She has very little experience in gaming, but a lot in marketing and project management. Her boss is nothing short of misogynistic and in a playful banter between herself and another woman at the company, Melody comes up with a ridiculous game that flips the sexist script of most games in production. Instead of the hypersexed women, we have beefy men following the lead of strong female characters. The complete joke of a game idea is overheard by the boss, who pitches it to the board. In a lame attempt to be superficially feminist (whilst making constantly sexist jabs), they greenlight the project. 

This on top of the fact that the boss's nephew, Nolan, gets hired as an intern and is now working on Melody's project. Of course, she immediately hates him because he gets to walk into a job with all of the privileges that she has to work triple time to earn because she is a junior level Korean-American woman in the gaming industry. She has to jump hurdles, whilst his track is clear of obstacles. And of course he is running the inclusivity initiative at the company: the white guy who got the job due to nepotism. Classic. I would hate him too. But it is so hard to hate him because he is just so cute, and smart, and maybe kind sometimes. 

And Melody is now the maid-of-honor for one of her close friends' wedding! Talk about a full plate.

I love everything this book has to say about the gaming industry: it's sexist, it's racist, it doesn't leave room for success for anyone that isn't a cis-het white man. 

I think the book would fair better if the blurb and the marketing didn't push the enemies-to-lovers romance aspect as hard as they do. At the end of the day, the romance feels so small compared to the personal issues Melody is facing. Nolan genuinely feels like an afterthought throughout the majority of the novel, much less of a major player than is implied by the cover and blurb. 

The writing style is fun, the characters are complex, and the story is very healthy mix of character and plot (I prefer when I can barely tell which is doing the heavy lifting). 

So, yeah, while it doesnt have much of that butterflies in the tummy, sweat inducing tension that I appreciate and looked forward to -- the story is good for what it is. A story about a woman beating the odds in an industry that doesn't want her to win. 

I definitely think some of the appeal of this book is just how real and natural it is. It doesn't play up the romance, and it doesn't play down the misogyny or the stress of working in gaming. Not everyone lives a whirlwind romance, sometimes we just get a romance. Can't that be good enough? Especially when the main character is so strong willed and inspiring, you question whether she should bother with romance. 

The book doesn't live up to what it claims to be, but it is good nonetheless. 

I would like to add, upon further reflection, that the title is kind of clever if you think of it both from the romantic point of view, but also from the point of view that the industry Melody works in loathed her at first sight and wasn't willing to give her a chance.

I will add that there is plenty of problematic and irritating content (the parents and the whole of the gaming industry), and it is definitely hard to read at times. However, that is the point. Melody does not condone her parents' behaviors, she is ashamed of it. She has to constantly remind herself that her mom is wrong about the things she says to Melody -- about her weight and her beauty. Shit, I have to do that with my own parents all the time. They're not just mean, sometimes they're plainly hateful. The book does not condone it, it purposely sets the parents up to sound ridiculous, because that's what they are. The same goes for the sexism and the misogyny and the racism Melody faces. You get mad because it's all so real, it's shit you've heard before, it is shit you have been dealing with for so long. It's annoying. That's why Melody has to overcome all of it, rise above the hateful vitriol. Continue to love herself despite the world telling her not to. Know her own worth and make everyone else know her worth. 
Spoiler I will say that there was that one comment from Nolan about how Melody dismissed him because he's inexperienced and that she's being hypocritical. Except, it's not the same thing Nolan because you got the internship through nepotism. People don't dismiss Melody because she is inexperienced. People dismiss her because they don't believe that someone that looks like her could even try. Nolan was given a task despite being inexperienced, and she dismissed not because he seems like someone that wouldn't know how, but because he is someone that doesn't know how. Others wouldn't even bother to find out if Melody is inexperienced, they already "know" because they can't imagine that she could know. It is not the same to say "hey, you dismissed me because I'm not qualified" and "hey, you dismissed me because you don't think an Asian woman could, or even should be qualified. you don't want me here, you don't think i belong." One is based on fact, the other on prejudice. That was something that bothered me, and Melody doesn't question if Nolan is right in this situation. She immediately agrees that she was being a hypocrite, which no she was not.
 

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funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5


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