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Family Meal by Bryan Washington

31 reviews

wanderlust_romance's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

3.5

Family Meal is a slow-paced, character driven novel that focuses on several relationships: Cam, in the aftermath of his partner Kai's death; TJ, in his meandering professional life, complicated romantic and sexual relationships, and memories of his father; and Kai, in a post-humous reflection on his coming of age in Louisiana, queerness, relationship with Cam, and experience as a Japanese translator.

Cam's character arc is particularly devastating. He is on an increasingly downward spiral after moving back to Houston from Los Angeles after the death of his partner Kai. He is grieving and engaging in risky and harmful behaviors in order to avoid dealing with his emotional state. When the people around Cam try to buoy him through this self-harm, Cam takes actions that contribute to pushing his friends away.

The bulk of the story focuses on TJ. His work, his family dynamics, his mixed race identity (Black/Asian), his messy romantic and sexual relationships, memories of his deceased father, and his longstanding friendship with Cam. To some degree, he is a very isolated character, similar to Cam in his self-destructive spiral prior to entering rehab. TJ's story felt the most unfocused until the very end of his chapter - when he finally comes to the realization that connection and family (chosen or by blood) are necessary.

I enjoyed how Houston itself became a character within the story. Washington manages to weave together unique neighborhoods, city life observations, and aspects of gentrification into a place setting that helps set the scene for these characters exceptionally well. And the food descriptions and references...man I am really craving some Korean food now.

Family Meal reminded me a lot of All Friends Are Necessary by Tomas Moniz with its earnestness and exploration of grief and queerness.

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lns242's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional funny hopeful fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

I flew through this. I connected to these characters a lot. 

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djpenpal's review against another edition

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dark medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5


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magis1105's review against another edition

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dark emotional slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

Not for me, the topics/premise seems good and promising. But it just did not work for me.
The characters, the writing style, the pacing, the amount of meaningless sex and drug use, everything just rubbed me the wrong way.

I understand this is probably a me thing.

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queenoftheharpies's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad fast-paced

3.0


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carlytenille's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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kaywhiteley's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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jimins's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.5

read for bookclub; this was my first bryan washington novel and these characters felt real. the style of the book didn’t particularly work for me but i would still recommend reading it.

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kmsander4's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25


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