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bec459's review
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Eating disorder, Misogyny, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, and Sexual harassment
hannahebert's review against another edition
4.0
Listening to Bri read her memoir was incredibly powerful. Not only did she have an important message and experience to share, her writing style is truly compelling. At times crass and plain, at other times vivid and hauntingly beautiful.
Have a box of tissues handy, maybe two. You’ll cry and cry, get angry, and then get to work.
Graphic: Eating disorder, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Vomit, and Grief
kowtherq's review
5.0
It was a fascinating insight into Bri Lee’s time as a young judge’s associate fresh out of uni and the process of being a complainant in the same system itself a few years later. It is shameful and disheartening how the legal system fails survivors over and over with very few guilty verdicts, unless the accused is not white. Usually class and race elements are overlooked in how it affects sentencing and how a jury might deliver a verdict, but this book acknowledges those well, especially in some of the cases where an Indigenous man is on trial and is found guilty compared to the many white men who are found not guilty. I can’t imagine how damning it must be for women to go through the legal process and only just retraumatise themselves in the process only to see no justice in the end.
I also enjoyed that this was a memoir rather than a theoretical book with personal anecdotes weaved in.
This book deals with heavy themes, sexual assault and rape mainly. If you read it, please read with great care.
Otherwise, this is a book that you should definitely read at least once in your life.
Graphic: Sexual assault and Sexual violence
Minor: Eating disorder
kkulhannie's review
4.5
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, Pedophilia, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, and Sexual harassment
jennadewit's review
5.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Child abuse, Eating disorder, Incest, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Vomit, Alcohol, and Sexual harassment
madisonmc's review
5.0
This book should be in all high schools. And if its to much for "young Adults" at the very least it should be required when studying law. An insight deeper than just what textbooks can teach you.
The only negative aside from lots of tears, this book is very much all about Bri - quite self conscious and obsessed. Given the context of the book it does make sense. But I did find it quite distracting.
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Racism, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, and Sexual harassment
sammantha's review
5.0
Graphic: Rape, Sexual assault, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Self harm and Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Animal cruelty, Animal death, and Cannibalism
bri_ste's review
4.5
Graphic: Eating disorder, Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, Sexual violence, and Suicide
kimberleyb's review
5.0
Moderate: Child abuse, Eating disorder, Pedophilia, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, and Vomit
claudes's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Sexual assault and Sexual violence
Minor: Misogyny