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cecialex's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Rape, and Grief
anjasshelf's review against another edition
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal death, Chronic illness, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Terminal illness, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Cancer
Minor: Pandemic/Epidemic
kilonshele's review against another edition
4.0
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Chronic illness, Rape, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Suicide attempt and Death of parent
paigicus's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Rape, Sexual assault, Medical content, and Alcohol
Moderate: Animal death, Chronic illness, Death, Eating disorder, and Death of parent
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Drug use, Suicidal thoughts, and Toxic relationship
cinderrunner's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Chronic illness, Death, Drug use, Eating disorder, Mental illness, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, and Alcohol
melissa_h's review against another edition
5.0
I really appreciate her oppenness. I want to watch her documentary ðŸ˜
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Body shaming, Chronic illness, Death, and Eating disorder
mjscooke's review against another edition
3.75
Minor: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Drug use, Eating disorder, Rape, Sexual assault, Grief, Death of parent, Alcohol, and Pandemic/Epidemic
katieconklin's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Chronic illness, Suicide, Suicide attempt, and Alcohol
Moderate: Drug use, Eating disorder, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, and Death of parent
Minor: Adult/minor relationship and Body shaming
kelly_e's review against another edition
3.5
Author: Selma Blair
Genre: Memoir
Rating: 3.50
Pub Date: May 17, 2022
T H R E E • W O R D S
Vulnerable • Straightforward • Fitful
📖 S Y N O P S I S
The first story Selma Blair Beitner ever heard about herself is that she was a mean, mean baby. With her mouth pulled in a perpetual snarl and a head so furry it had to be rubbed to make way for her forehead, Selma spent years living up to her terrible reputation: biting her sisters, lying spontaneously, getting drunk from Passover wine at the age of seven, and behaving dramatically so that she would be the center of attention.
Although Selma went on to become a celebrated Hollywood actress and model, she could never quite shake the periods of darkness that overtook her, the certainty that there was a great mystery at the heart of her life. She often felt like her arms might be on fire, a sensation not unlike electric shocks, and she secretly drank to escape.
💠T H O U G H T S
I've been on a celebrity memoir kick lately, and Selma Blair's was up next on the docket. Going in, I knew very little about the author aside from having seen her in a few movies (most notably Legally Blond - a favourite of mine). And I must say Mean Baby didn't wow me like some celebrity memoirs have.
Selma narrates her story in a non-linear manner, touching on her childhood - particularly her strained relationship with her parents, - her alcoholism and depression, her MS diagnosis, and life with her son. The first half has a fair amount of name dropping and superficial meandering, when in fact there could have been a lot more reflection and emotion. The strength of this memoir lies in her opening up about her MS diagnosis and living with a chronic illness. Yet even here there could have been a lot more depth.
I can't pinpoint exactly what this memoir was missing, but I know it was lacking something. It didn't pack the emotional punch I'd been anticipating, despite some extremely difficult and heartbreaking circumstances. It's Selma's right to remain very surface level in telling her story - but as a reader I wanted so much more depth.
📚 R E C O M M E N D • T O
• celebrity memoir fanatics
• readers wishing to learn a bit about MS
🔖 F A V O U R I T E • Q U O T E S
"Someone once told me that grief is love you can no longer express."
"I learned how it feels when someone else’s thoughts touch a part of you that you haven’t felt before."
"Books also taught me how to notice things, how a moment can be a whole story."
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Chronic illness, Drug abuse, Mental illness, Suicide attempt, and Alcohol
Moderate: Body shaming, Death, Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Pedophilia, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Toxic relationship, and Grief
Minor: Animal death, Cancer, Cursing, Vomit, Medical content, Death of parent, and Pregnancy
millywebster's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Death, Drug abuse, Mental illness, Suicide attempt, and Alcohol
Moderate: Addiction, Eating disorder, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Antisemitism, Medical content, Medical trauma, and Death of parent
Minor: Pregnancy