Reviews tagging 'Panic attacks/disorders'

Maid: Hard Work, Low Pay, and a Mother's Will to Survive by Stephanie Land

13 reviews

idesofmarch's review against another edition

challenging emotional inspiring sad tense medium-paced

3.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Emotional abuse, Domestic abuse, and Car accident

Moderate: Toxic relationship, Medical content, Panic attacks/disorders, and Classism

Minor: Mental illness and Vomit

isabelle_mary's review against another edition

emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced

5.0

Stephanie Land is a strong and courageous woman who set off to create a better life for her daughter. Reading about her journey was beautiful and inspiring as she never let the downfalls of life consume her and instead rose above them. It also made me angry at how hard it is for people who need help to get help, along with how judgemental the world is. We should be doing more and being supportive. Overall this book was a true masterpiece and I strive to have the ambition Stephanie has. 

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Domestic abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Abortion, Body shaming, Car accident, Child abuse, Gaslighting, and Toxic relationship

kaitthelibrarian's review against another edition

hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Panic attacks/disorders and Domestic abuse

miggyfool's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful informative reflective sad tense medium-paced

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Classism, Domestic abuse, Gaslighting, Car accident, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Sexism, Vomit, Emotional abuse, Medical content, Medical trauma, and Misogyny

Moderate: Alcohol, Body shaming, Bullying, Abandonment, Fatphobia, Suicide, Addiction, Drug use, and Child abuse

missrosymaplemoth's review against another edition

3.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Emotional abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Toxic relationship, Domestic abuse, and Classism

Moderate: Medical content, Mental illness, and Car accident

redefiningrachel's review against another edition

emotional inspiring reflective medium-paced

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Car accident, Gaslighting, Domestic abuse, Classism, Violence, Panic attacks/disorders, Bullying, Emotional abuse, and Toxic relationship

Moderate: Child abuse, Body shaming, Cancer, Abandonment, Blood, Medical content, Medical trauma, Terminal illness, and Misogyny

Minor: Addiction, Drug use, Excrement, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , and Grief

jax00's review against another edition

challenging emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.5

Stephanie Land wrote about poverty and the "real" parts of poverty and making too much and not enough. I think the reactions of those around her say a lot about people in general that those in poverty or on WIC/Food stamps are often seen as a certain group and she didn't look the part or needed owe someone else. However, how she handled Mia was a little concerning. After getting a tax refund and knowing her daughter was sick due to black mold, she went out and bought jewelry and had fun instead of putting it towards somewhere else. 


Tw: SA
Also, I think more should have been done with custody. At the end Mia starts wetting the bed, losing weight, and has a few other "warning signs". She was also frequently left alone with groups of unknown men. I hope that in real life, Land took her to get checked up and brought this up to someone. In the book, it seemed she just meantined it briefly to the caseworker.


I also think the book ended too early in their journey. She still has loans and didn't have a "forever" place. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Emotional abuse and Domestic abuse

Moderate: Car accident and Panic attacks/disorders

kirsty_irwin's review against another edition

emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Car accident, Classism, Excrement, Gaslighting, and Suicidal thoughts

Moderate: Abandonment, Alcohol, Child abuse, Toxic relationship, Alcoholism, Medical content, Blood, and Terminal illness

nevertheless_she_reads's review against another edition

hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced

5.0

I just finished Maid, a memoir by Stephanie Land, and WOW did it open my eyes 👀 
 Stephanie, a single mom, with no family to turn to or trust, shares her story of living paycheck-to-paycheck to just get by in a world that repeatedly stomps on poor people.
 Have you ever heard anyone criticize a welfare recipient for "taking advantage of the system", or "taking government handouts" or "not contributing to society" or wait, this one makes me extra-cringey, "using my tax money for their benefit "??? Truth is, people say and think these critical things all the time.
 Maid is an honest reminder that statements like those are problematic, also wildly unhelpful and unsupportive. And Stephanie Land is an honest writer in telling us why. As someone who has worked her ass off in a low-paying profession, Stephanie tells her stories of how trying to feed her daughter Mia a healthy, well-balanced diet using food stamps and WIC benefits was virtually impossible. They relied on Medicaid to help treat her daughter's health concerns. But her health concerns were exacerbated by the black mold lurking in their apartment, which was the only affordable living option Stephanie could find. Never mind that the doctors all told her how illegal it was of her landlord to allow those living conditions to exist. Stephanie couldn't afford to take legal action, and she couldn't afford to move out. She could never afford {fill in the blank} or {fill in another blank, and another...}. Alternately, if she got too good at her minimum-wage-paying job, and therefore took on more work, cleaning more client's homes, then she made too much money and didn't qualify for hundreds of dollars of government assistance that they needed to survive. She also had to consider the costs of childcare in taking on work. It's a vicious cycle Stephanie and Mia fought with, and lived through for years.
 Their story enhanced my perspective, and gave me cause to reflect...
 I appreciated how Stephanie recognized that as a white woman seeking government assistance, her opportunities were drastically different than those of her black, brown and disabled neighbors who were also seeking assistance. 
 And I loved how much she shared about motherhood. How her desire to protect and love her little girl shone through with the sacrifices she made.
 This book gets all the stars from me. I can't wait to watch the series on Netflix that is based on Stephanie's book!
 I recommend listening to this while doing your least favorite chores and silently repeating to yourself, "I am grateful for all these clothes we have." "I am grateful for the food that sat on these dishes." "I am grateful for running water, for my electricity, and for my heat." Because too many people don't have those luxuries.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Car accident, Toxic relationship, Bullying, and Panic attacks/disorders

mandi4886's review against another edition

challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced

5.0

So good!!

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Car accident, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, and Toxic relationship

Moderate: Alcohol, Blood, Cursing, Gaslighting, Injury/Injury detail, Medical content, and Sexism

Minor: Abandonment, Abortion, Alcoholism, Body shaming, Child abuse, Death, Drug use, Excrement, Misogyny, Pregnancy, Violence, and Vomit