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The Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense by Suzette Haden Elgin

ejdecoster's review against another edition

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Presupposed a lot of knowledge; you really had to buy into a system to really understand most of the book. Not only was the content dated, I was pretty frustrated by the distinctions that relied exclusively on gender differences as explanations.

libbet's review against another edition

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4.0

Truly fascinating. I really should have read this while I was still at my old job. Now planning on looking up as much of her non-fiction as possible.

biblioseph's review

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started 12-16-03

jen1110's review

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3.0

It doesn't contain as many tricks/strategies for avoiding/defusing verbal abuse as I was hoping for, but it's still a pretty good book. Most of the material deals with conversation and communication and how to make sure that your message is understood. I'm glad I read it, but I don't know how useful it will be in the long run.
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