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kailiyahknight's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Bullying, Child abuse, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Fatphobia, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Medical trauma, Fire/Fire injury, and Alcohol
Moderate: Child death, Death of parent, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Mental illness, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Terminal illness, Blood, Vomit, Medical content, Pregnancy, Abandonment, and Sexual harassment
lanayagraham's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Child abuse, Cursing, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Racial slurs, Sexual assault, Excrement, Grief, Death of parent, Alcohol, and Sexual harassment
laurajordensharris's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Cursing, Death, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Sexism, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Violence, Death of parent, Abandonment, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Classism
hfrisco's review against another edition
3.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal death, Domestic abuse, Racial slurs, Sexual assault, and Alcohol
andlovetoowillruinus's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Alcohol
Moderate: Animal death, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Medical content, and Death of parent
Minor: Bullying, Incest, Pedophilia, Sexual assault, Abandonment, and Classism
silaskpipson's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Abandonment, and Alcohol
bella613's review against another edition
3.0
I won't say I liked it, though.
The last third or so was the best out of the book- tbh I would have rated the first half 2 stars. This might be because the beginning events take place before she could possibly remember them.
I know it's a memoir, and it's her perspective on her own life, but something I can't quite put into words to felt off about it. It reads very casually, in parts that are clearly not lighthearted. Some people described it as straightforward writing style but it felt more detached to me. I obviously dont know the facts of her life but I felt the distinct impression of someone exaggerating, not necessarily to gain sympathy or praise, but more because they actually see themselves as the main character of the world. The whole family is clearly very intelligent (even though both parents are extremely closed minded, selfish, and arguably psychotic) and the kids took a lot of initiative despite never being taught or shown any responsibility.
I think the biggest thing that made it difficult for me to relate and/or take something from this book is that the people in it don't feel real. Walls describes everyone in her life as very clear good vs bad characters- there are the evil ones and the victims, and no in between. And despite this, she shows almost no resentment and describes no clear forgiveness. Everything that was done to the children is swept away and they sort of just act like nothing happened once they are on their own. There's no boundaries set but there's also no reconciliation.
I listened to the audiobook, which the author reads herself. I would have preferred a different reader but I would say I'm glad I listened rather than reading it in physical copy.
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Infidelity, Mental illness, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Violence, Medical content, Medical trauma, Car accident, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Alcohol, Injury/Injury detail, and Classism
katmystery's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Mental illness, Racism, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Medical content, Stalking, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Alcohol, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Pedophilia
kaelizaco's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Bullying, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Rape, Medical content, Death of parent, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
halloween_writes's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Pedophilia, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Medical content, Medical trauma, Fire/Fire injury, Alcohol, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Death of parent