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I really enjoyed this. I've never been a Little Hilton per se but I do have this distant intrigue to this socialite, especially since she came out about her horrific experience in those wilderness camps as a child.
I hadn't realised how much trauma she had been through and found her life that was disclosed in her memoir in her own words to be powerful, engaging and full of growth.
The way she loves her animals and the people in her life was so beautiful to read about, but I'm glad she opened up about the difficulties she had in relationships as it brought her into the perspective of being relatable and empathic. So when she's talking about growth and freedom to live her life, despite her own acknowledgement of her privallages, it's stated with a strong sense of relief and happiness.
I thought this was a fantastic insight into Paris' life. I really enjoyed reading this and finished it (mainly via audiobook, where she narrates it herself) over a day and a bit.
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Animal death, Bullying, Cancer, Child abuse, Confinement, Death, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Torture, Toxic relationship, Violence, Forced institutionalization, Medical content, Kidnapping, Grief, Medical trauma, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, Injury/Injury detail, Pandemic/Epidemic
Graphic: Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Torture, Violence
Minor: Infertility
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Bullying, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Torture, Toxic relationship, Violence, Forced institutionalization, Dementia, Kidnapping, Stalking, Abortion, Death of parent
Minor: Cultural appropriation
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Bullying, Child abuse, Confinement, Cursing, Misogyny, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Torture, Violence, Trafficking, Medical trauma, Alcohol, Sexual harassment
Moderate: Child death, Death, Toxic relationship, Medical content, Pregnancy
Minor: Animal death, Cancer, Domestic abuse, Miscarriage, Terminal illness, Stalking, Abortion, Cultural appropriation
Okay, on to the story.
From being literally kidnapped — with her parents permission! - and forced into an abusive youth facility to all the other unfair struggles she faced, I was shocked. I can’t fathom how she was able to forgive her parents after everything she went through because of THEIR continuous choices, but I guess it just goes to show how compassionate and big her heart truly is. Turns out I did not know Paris Hilton at all.
Paris shows how resilient she is and how strong she is to have endured the level of abuse on literally all levels she has had to go through. The fact that so many desperate parents who truly just wanted the best for their children had been scammed not only out of their money but also been broken beyond repair by these massive industries that are STILL RUN TODAY and that benefited from these difficult situations is absolutely disgusting and makes me lose my faith in humanity.
And I truly just can’t help but question what the fuck her parents were on who kept repeatedly sending her back to the place that literally broke her apart each time she managed to run away. You can tell me whatever you want, but when your child begs you to come home and confesses with tears they’re being abused and you’re literally witnessing them dwindle into nothingness with your own eyes, how do you justify it with “we couldn’t have known”???????
I hope one day she gets to fully heal from all that she has suffered from and I pray for all the other victims whose names haven’t been mentioned but who have suffered the same — if not even worse — fate.
This was a very eye opening book and I’m glad I gave it a shot.
Graphic: Bullying, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, Kidnapping, Sexual harassment
Graphic: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Torture, Violence, Forced institutionalization, Abandonment, Sexual harassment
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Alcohol
Minor: Animal death, Body shaming, Eating disorder, Infertility, Pregnancy, Classism
That said, her well-documented racist/homophobic statements of the past, which are largely unaddressed aside from the one-liner, "I said some awful things in the past," show she just isn't there yet. I wish she dug in deeper about her decision to defend Trump's vile statements during the 2016 election and throwing other women under the bus. It really undermines her messaging throughout.
Additionally, there were multiple instances when she commented, "Oh, I really loved this comedian/artist until they targeted me. You shouldn't hurt people like that," as if she hadn't been laughing along before.
I think, ultimately, she has shown an immaculate amount of growth and she still has a long way to go to catch up.
Given what I learned during reading it (her remarks), I don't regret spending my sick days reading it. I think it's an excellent story and a good reminder that we can hold multiple truths at the same time. I'm glad someone with her size of following wrote about this absolutely horrific topic, barring their soul. And, ultimately, I want to trust that she will someday dismantle the clear racism that she absorbed from her world (just as I hope all wh1te people will).
Graphic: Child abuse, Cursing, Emotional abuse, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, Alcohol
Moderate: Sexual content, Abortion, Toxic friendship
Minor: Animal death, Child death, Incest, Miscarriage, Suicide, Stalking, Suicide attempt, Cultural appropriation
Moderate: Sexual assault, Violence
Graphic: Addiction, Bullying, Child abuse, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Sexual harassment
Minor: Body shaming, Bullying, Child abuse, Confinement, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Mental illness, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Violence, Trafficking, Sexual harassment
Minor: Child abuse, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Violence, Stalking, Abandonment, Sexual harassment