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Pageboy: Meine Geschichte by Elliot Page

406 reviews

angrangy's review against another edition

inspiring reflective sad fast-paced

3.25

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Bullying, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Mental illness, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Transphobia, Lesbophobia, Outing, and Dysphoria

imscrem's review against another edition

dark emotional hopeful reflective sad tense fast-paced

2.5

I appreciate that Elliot Page took the time to write down his story. I listened to the audiobook, and found it difficult at times to understand what time period in his life he was writing from due to the somewhat jumpy narrative.  I didn’t enjoy hearing about his sexual escapades or the many, many times he was sexually abused, but I have to acknowledge that these are true parts of his story and the book would not have been complete without them. It was uncomfortable to hear about who licked what while I rode the subway. Overall, I this book definitely wasn’t what I expected — I thought it would be a more uplifting take on the trans experience, but came out thinking it’s more of a dismal array of all the ways that people can be horrific to someone for being different. I wish the world was kinder. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Alcoholism, Bullying, Child abuse, Cursing, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Homophobia, Infidelity, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Blood, Stalking, Lesbophobia, Outing, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, Dysphoria, and Injury/Injury detail

Moderate: Cancer, Deadnaming, Death, Physical abuse, Medical content, Kidnapping, Religious bigotry, and Death of parent

Minor: Vomit, Car accident, and Pandemic/Epidemic

mons278's review

challenging emotional reflective

3.5

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Child abuse, Deadnaming, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Self harm, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Outing, and Gaslighting

padancer's review against another edition

slow-paced

2.5

More like a short stories book, not a memoir. Compared to others which were published near this time period, much much worse. I couldnt get a grip since it was not in chronological order. For me too shallow and not very detailed, so I couldn’t sympathize with Elliot

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Self harm

Moderate: Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Suicidal thoughts, and Transphobia

charleshasalibrary's review against another edition

It was just too triggering. I hope to go back some day to finish it. His writing voice is great, the content was just too much for me.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Eating disorder, Homophobia, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Stalking, Lesbophobia, Outing, and Sexual harassment

Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, and Eating disorder

wrenisreading's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad tense medium-paced

5.0

A tender and gorgeously written memoir chronicling pivitol moments in Elliot Page's life. 

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Content Warnings

Minor: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Self harm, Sexual assault, Transphobia, and Lesbophobia

maryellen's review against another edition

adventurous challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad slow-paced

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Cursing, Deadnaming, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Transphobia, Medical content, Lesbophobia, Dysphoria, and Pandemic/Epidemic

Moderate: Emotional abuse, Infidelity, and Alcohol

sommer22's review against another edition

challenging emotional hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced

3.75

I think Page does well to preface that his trans story isn't necessarily remarkable but that he still hopes it touches people in some way. I'd call that an apt review for this book. 

The first half of this book reads as a typical actor's memoir: their beginnings in the industry, their rise to fame, etc. I greatly enjoyed the second half when Page is coming to terms with his identity, first as a lesbian and then as a trans man. Even if his story is one of many trans narratives, this aspect showcases the nuances of his narrative and what makes it special.

After accepting his transness, he goes straight into top surgery, which is so joyous but also specific to his story. Better yet, he acknowledges the privilege he had to do that.

I admire Page's self-reflection and groundedness, and he renders scenes with tender perception and feeling. 

This memoir is nonlinear, which not infrequently felt jumpy. The ending also felt abrupt and disconnected from the present.

This is a good queer story to read, especially for those who have followed Page throughout his career. If you choose not to read it, though, that's OK too.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual content

Moderate: Deadnaming, Emotional abuse, Self harm, Sexual assault, Transphobia, Stalking, and Lesbophobia

Minor: Suicidal thoughts

leahkafer's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional hopeful slow-paced

3.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Eating disorder and Dysphoria

Moderate: Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, and Suicidal thoughts

robinks's review against another edition

emotional reflective sad medium-paced

3.25

I was excited to see that Page read his own audiobook - memoirs always seem to have a greater impact on me when done this way. However, the chapters felt so disorganized to me, both in chronology and topic. While I appreciate Page’s acknowledgement of his privileged identities, I want to read more memoirs by trans folks of color.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body shaming, Child abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Homophobia, Mental illness, Misogyny, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Blood, Medical content, Stalking, Lesbophobia, Outing, Gaslighting, Sexual harassment, and Dysphoria

Moderate: Bullying, Deadnaming, Drug use, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, and Alcohol

Minor: Racism, Suicidal thoughts, and Pandemic/Epidemic