rikievans's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Minor: Child abuse, Death of parent, and Dementia
good_names_dont_exist's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Ableism, Death of parent, Dementia, Medical content, and Medical trauma
Moderate: Religious bigotry, Car accident, and Drug use
Minor: Homophobia and Vomit
ashton_n's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Favorite Quote: “This is not your fault; this is the way it always has been; there is nothing any of us can do; I love you so much for trying”
Graphic: Ableism
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Religious bigotry, Medical trauma, and Child abuse
Minor: Addiction, Death, Death of parent, Abandonment, Body horror, Alcohol, Dementia, Drug use, Fire/Fire injury, Injury/Injury detail, and Grief
shirarweiss's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Xenophobia, Death, Child abuse, Drug abuse, Medical content, Car accident, Medical trauma, Toxic relationship, Alcohol, Ableism, Death of parent, Dementia, Drug use, Gaslighting, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Emotional abuse, and Religious bigotry
signeskov's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.25
Also: make sure to read this in a print format! The book includes many wonderful illustrations of ASL that you can practice and learn from as you read. I imagine this works for a much better reading experience in a print than audio book format.
(NB: I chose this book originally as part of the 2023 StoryGraph genre challenge to read a novel with disability rep - though, as it is also apparent from the book, deafness may or may not be a disability depending on the deaf individual you ask and their own lived experience. For now, though, given the thorough injustices experienced by deaf children and adults alike in societies still structured around the presumption of hearing, I believe this novel still qualifies as a relevant selection for the challenge)
Graphic: Ableism, Car accident, Terminal illness, Death of parent, Dementia, Hate crime, Medical trauma, and Racism
Moderate: Grief, Alcohol, Drug use, Forced institutionalization, and Religious bigotry
tree_swallow_in_flight's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
(Disclaimer: I as a hearing person cannot speak from experience regarding the representation in this book, but given the author and illustrator are both Deaf, I think it's safe to say there was care and authenticity put into it)
I can't quite pinpoint how I feel about this book. It was absolutely worth the read, and I'd recommend it to anyone who's curious about the Deaf community. It finally pushed me to learn the ASL alphabet. It captured my attention and I devoured it in a matter of days. And yet, there were aspects of the storytelling that didn't quite click for me.
So, let's do some +/-!
What I liked:
- building suspense (through dramatic irony, slowly hinting toward reveals, etc.)
- nuanced discussions regarding raising/educating Deaf kids
- Charlie's conflicted relationship with her mother. This dynamic felt very realistic, allowing us to feel the repercussions of damaging decisions in the past and the humanity of both characters
- watching Charlie gain confidence in her Deafness
- pacing/plot held my attention for extended periods of time
What fell a little flat:
- - the many POV changes
- Personally, I found Charlie's story and character the most compelling and developed. While there were some interesting differences in perspective showcased by February's and Austin's points of view, ultimately I felt that having so many points of view left a lot of underdeveloped characters and relationships, and lots of side characters and backstories to keep track of. We even got random chapters from side characters, which felt unnecessary. If they have something important to add, can't that be revealed in dialogue?
- - the ending
- This might come down to personal preference, but the ending, to me, felt unresolved, like it was just abruptly cut off right after the climax. There were a couple of established conflicts where the outcomes were left hanging, and the climax itself did not feel like it actually resolved anything.
- - the romantic relationships
- I felt like we only ever saw the surface level of romantic relationships, and the moments where we got to witness the characters actually connecting were rare.
Moderate: Ableism and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Vomit, Dementia, Death of parent, and Child abuse
jes312's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
Graphic: Death of parent and Ableism
Moderate: Drug use
Minor: Cursing
martachbc's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
3.5
Moderate: Death of parent, Bullying, Car accident, and Ableism
analenegrace's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Charlie as a character was very interesting and her family life tells an important story of Deaf experiences in the United States today. Juxtaposing her with Austin allowed me, as the reader, to see the two sides to Deaf life and the challenges of each.
I'm not sure where I thought the book would end, but it wasn't that in a very good way. The story ramped up in a believable way, making it a very good read.
My first criticism lies in the way Austin's ex is written; she's such a flat character, seemingly only there to make Charlie seem cooler and better. My other criticism of this is its advertisement as LGBTQIA+; while the headmistress is a lesbian, the story is only about her a little bit, and the overarching story is about Charlie and Austin, a straight couple.
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Medical content, Medical trauma, Adult/minor relationship, Car accident, Death of parent, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Alcohol, Child abuse, Forced institutionalization, and Gaslighting
autihd_elno's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Moderate: Ableism
Minor: Death of parent, Drug use, and Dementia
To varying degrees, the ableist points of view each POV character encounters from people or social structures/institutions in their lives are addressed as part of the story. I would say this is the most pronounced in the story of Charlie. As the Deaf girl who has never met another Deaf person prior to the start of the book's story, she does, unsurprisingly, interact with people in her life who have quite ableist attitudes regarding her being Deaf and the idea of her attending a school for the Deaf. It is also a relevant theme in the story line of Austin, the Deaf character whose baby sister is born hearing, as his story line grapples in part with the differences he sees in how the birth of a hearing baby is received versus the birth of a Deaf baby. There are also brief descriptions regarding