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Convenience Store Woman by Sayaka Murata

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bookcheshirecat's review against another edition

emotional reflective sad fast-paced

3.0

“When something was strange, everyone thought they had the right to come stomping in all over your life to figure out why. I found that arrogant and infuriating, not to mention a pain in the neck. Sometimes I even wanted to hit them with a shovel to shut them up, like I did that time in elementary school. But I recalled how upset my sister had been when I’d casually mentioned this to her before and kept my mouth shut.”

➽ Convenience Store Woman caught my eye because the premise sounded so interesting! The story follows Keiko Furukura, who works at a Japanese convenience store. It was meant as a side job, but now that she's 36, people start to question why she's still stuck in a dead-end job. Furukura has always struggled with fitting in and the convenience store is the only place she feels comfortable with, as it has a guidebook for behavior. Instead of feeling out of place, Furukura follows the rules diligently and watches her coworkers for clues on how to act. I really felt for her as her few friends judged her for her lack of career and the fact that she has no spouse or plans to have children. The author discusses the narrow expectations of society and what happens to those who fall outside of the norm. I loved how the setting of the convenience store was described as Furukura's safe space, it was so immersive. She's one of the most dedicated employees and it was interesting seeing how the store worked. Her relationship with the store is intriguing, as Furukura finds a purpose and role within the setting that helps her appear 'normal' to society. The commentary on how service workers are treated was good, as most of her friends don't know why she's still in a job they view as low on the ladder of society.

➽ Unfortunately, I don't think the story did the themes justice. Not only is the book short and the ending very rushed, but it could have dived deeper into hetero and amatonormativity. It was heartbreaking to see Furukura being judged and shamed for her way of life. I got the feeling she was also neurodiverse in some way, yet it was never properly addressed. While the author clearly tried to add her commentary on toxic societal expectations, she didn't offer any deeper insights or solutions. The ending felt a bit depressing, as Furukura doesn't properly make peace with the way her life is -

except for realizing that working at the convenience store is what she's meant to do, no matter what everyone else says

- and a lot of things are left unsaid, especially regarding her sister who is hoping she'll be 'fixed'. The ending was so unsatisfying

because Furukura finally leaves Shiraha but we don't see how she finds a new job or how everyone else reacts to her being single again

. It seems like we're mostly back at the start of the story with her being judged for not living up to other's expectations.

I don't think she truly realizes she doesn't need to be fixed, which is so tragic

.

➽ In general, Shiraha's character overstayed his welcome. I get what his character was meant to show us someone who's also an outcast but only views himself as a victim despite his privilege as a man. However, he was just so unbearably misogynistic and I have no idea why Furukura let someone so toxic into her life willingly. She knew he stalked and harassed other women, so letting him stay with her and use her was such a horrendous idea. He annoyed me so much and despite the shade Furukura throws at him, she doesn't really stand up to him.

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camilamunoz's review against another edition

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lighthearted reflective fast-paced

4.0

This was a charming protagonist and take away; what works for one person might not work for everyone else, and that’s fine.
This book sheds light on how people on the spectrum may perceive their purpose and others on the daily (although the author never confirms Keiko's mental state).
It really bothered me that everyone close to Keiko was so focused on “fixing/curing her” while not offering any real support and dreaming up their own stories about her life.
I blame the counselor Keiko saw when she was a child for not giving her and her parents a proper diagnosis so she could at least go through life knowing exactly why she thought and acted the way she did. At least that way, she wouldn’t have to make excuses for people who’d poke their nose into her business the way she hated.

In the end, I’m glad she made peace with her calling

and screw Shiraha!! what a piece of entitled, incel dog shi-

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kat_a's review against another edition

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emotional lighthearted reflective slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

A lovely slice of life novella for a summers afternoon or long car ride. Perfect for winding down in the evening too. :)

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snowiceblackfruit77's review against another edition

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emotional tense fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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s_hirin_'s review against another edition

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challenging reflective fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

It's an definitely an unusual book, but I quite liked it. Some people find it too descriptive, but I think it fits the way the protagonist Keiko, who is definitely neurodivergent, sees the world. What I struggled with was the blunt sexism from one of the characters, which I sometimes found hard to read. But it fits the story so... Overall it was a quick read and a story that you think about even days later

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joisaddler's review against another edition

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fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? No
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

1.0

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naa_'s review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective tense fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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boombaeyah's review against another edition

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reflective slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? N/A
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.25

Thank goodness this book was short.

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loudonuts's review against another edition

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emotional funny lighthearted reflective fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

very similar to EARTHLINGS in that keiko finds herself not being able to be a part of society’s “factory” (but an entirely different tone) CONVENIENCE STORE WOMAN was a very relatable read as a neurodivergent person myself. i didn’t get much more out of it beyond that, but it was nice to feel seen.

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hyperashley's review against another edition

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lighthearted medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? No
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

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