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ms_read's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Content Warnings
Graphic: Infidelity, Panic attacks/disorders, Grief, Death of parent, and Classism
Moderate: Confinement, Physical abuse, and Rape
gibbyupsidedowncake's review against another edition
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
4.0
If you're looking for a lighthearted romance this isn't it. The romance definitely was not the primary aspect of this book but I still enjoyed it! Definitely should have some tw notated at the start because it does discuss some heavy topics.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Alcoholism, Emotional abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Suicide, and Death of parent
lachaussette's review against another edition
challenging
dark
emotional
hopeful
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Some parts of the book are heartbreakingly good. A lot of the drama is fueled by people refusing to have conversations with each other, which is frustrating.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Alcoholism and Death of parent
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Sexual violence, Suicide, Vomit, and Abandonment
Minor: Blood and Abortion
anni_banani's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Loveeee this book!
Overall I love the Rajes series more than the original Austen books personally. The retelling work so so well and Dev pulls them off amazingly. I love listening to her discuss how she came to this series in interviews
What I love in this book
Overall I love the Rajes series more than the original Austen books personally. The retelling work so so well and Dev pulls them off amazingly. I love listening to her discuss how she came to this series in interviews
What I love in this book
- Intergenerational story rotating POV btw mother daughter and daughter’s love interest
- I related too much to Ashna wow. As much as I was frustrated with her sometimes, i completely understand where she was coming from
- I’m attracted to both love interests!
- Rico was a great man MC
- Ashnas character development, wow
- Women in pro sports
- Calling out martial assault and Islamophobia
- Chai mmmmm
- Women in solidarity
This is maybe my fave in the Rajes Series. Dev gives you so much more than you bargained for, a really true and deep character overhaul. Wow the healing in this book outbounds me and that’s why I’ve re read it. I’m a sucker for inter generational storytelling and this book does it so well. I loved Shoban !!
I was so satisfied by the end and will always cry when re reading
Content Warnings
Graphic: Alcoholism, Gun violence, Sexism, Suicide, Blood, Death of parent, and Abandonment
Moderate: Confinement, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual assault, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Islamophobia
yannareads's review against another edition
challenging
hopeful
inspiring
mysterious
reflective
sad
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.25
Content Warnings
Moderate: Suicide, Grief, and Death of parent
Minor: Panic attacks/disorders and Rape
mamacalidad's review against another edition
emotional
funny
hopeful
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
I bawled like a baby. So good.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Alcoholism, Domestic abuse, Rape, Suicide, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, and Abandonment
chloewakham's review against another edition
emotional
mysterious
reflective
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
I didn't think it was possible, but I actually enjoyed Recipes for Persuasion more than the first book in the series!
After meeting Ashna in Pride, Prejudice, and Other Flavors, I was so excited to read her story. Her responsibility for her Father's restaurant, her relationship with her mother, and the rekindling of her love for Rico made for a compelling story. What I love about this series is that Sonali Dev doesn't try to match the Austen novels beat for beat, but rather patterns the characters hurts and motivations after the classic stories.
After meeting Ashna in Pride, Prejudice, and Other Flavors, I was so excited to read her story. Her responsibility for her Father's restaurant, her relationship with her mother, and the rekindling of her love for Rico made for a compelling story. What I love about this series is that Sonali Dev doesn't try to match the Austen novels beat for beat, but rather patterns the characters hurts and motivations after the classic stories.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Suicide, and Death of parent
Moderate: Rape and Classism
Minor: Pregnancy
mycatmycatandme's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Like 30% of readers said this was lighthearted and funny according to the StoryGraph stats. The AI summary thing calls this a romantic comedy. Did we read the same book? The cover is cute, but the book is heavy!
I liked it, but please don’t go in expecting a lighthearted romcom.
I liked it, but please don’t go in expecting a lighthearted romcom.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Alcoholism, Gun violence, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Suicide, Death of parent, and Gaslighting
Minor: Vomit, Islamophobia, and Abortion
milesandmiles's review against another edition
Do not judge this book by its cover or synopsis. It's not a cute romance.
A good chunk of the book is written from the MC's mother's POV. There's a tremendous amount of toxic family dynamics that are a huge part of the book but are not mentioned in the summary. From the ~1/3 I read, the emotional neglect and at times abuse within the MC's family is handled poorly.
This book couldn't decide if it wanted to be a romance or a family saga about intergenerational trauma and I quit when I got tried of yelling at the book to get the MC a therapist.
A good chunk of the book is written from the MC's mother's POV. There's a tremendous amount of toxic family dynamics that are a huge part of the book but are not mentioned in the summary. From the ~1/3 I read, the emotional neglect and at times abuse within the MC's family is handled poorly.
This book couldn't decide if it wanted to be a romance or a family saga about intergenerational trauma and I quit when I got tried of yelling at the book to get the MC a therapist.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Emotional abuse
Moderate: Alcoholism, Bullying, Misogyny, Suicide, Death of parent, and Abandonment
rdubs15's review against another edition
emotional
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
1.75
I wanted to love this book. I wanted to love it so hard. If it was the book that was described in the summary on the back of the book, I think I would have loved it.
But this book is not that book. It is not a “fresh, fun, and enchanting romantic comedy” as described. It is full of dark, triggering content. The real focus of the story (Shobi, her choices, how they impacted Ashna, and their mother-daughter relationship) isn’t mentioned at all in the summary. This book was the worst kind of bait and switch. I wouldn’t have picked it up if the summary was reliable because I was looking for a light hearted romance, not a heavy book with personally triggering content.
Even more upsetting is that I think both stories this book tries to tell had a real chance to be great.
Ashna’s exes to lovers story with Rico had the chance to be really sweet. The framework is there and the times that the book focuses on them is actually really fun - they have a cute dynamic! But their story, allegedly the focus of the novel, is pushed to the background and never given the room it needs to grow well. It is overshadowed by Shobi’s plot and, as a result, is under developed, suffers from really funky timing, and has an ending that doesn’t feel deserved.
Shobi’s forced marriage story has the potential to be a nuanced, heartbreaking, and fascinating story, but it has no business being in this novel. She is set up to be such an unsympathetic character at the beginning that the bulk of the novel is spent justifying her choices and attempting to redeem her, to the detriment of both her story and the alleged a-plot. And because we have to go back to the alleged a-plot romance, Shobi’s story suffers from horrible tone shifts (discussing the horrors of her marriage and then switching to Ashna and Rico having a conversation is whip lash inducing and negatively impacts both stories) and has to rely on stereotype to fast track story telling. Her story should have been its own book, then it could’ve been given the care and space it needed to be a fully developed story told the way it should be told. As it is, the plot has all the subtlety of a baseball bat and feels uncomfortable and out of place in what is billed as a fun and lighthearted rom com.
Separating out the two stories would result in a fun, sweet romance and a thoughtful, devastating look at the some of horrors that women face. Putting them in the same novel cheapens both stories, resulting in a muddled narrative that suffers from focus and pacing issues. The ending in particular is rushed and feels unearned, with more importance given to a happily ever after and tying everything up in a bow than actually addressing the consequences of the narrative.
I haven’t read Persuasion, so I can’t speak to how much inspiration it actually pulls from the book, but I spent a lot of the book going “this can’t be what Persuasion is about.”
The only reasons this book didn’t get zero stars from me is the strength of the writing - Sonali Dev writes beautifully - and the strength of the narration. Soneela Nankani did a fantastic job narrating this book. Her pacing was great, character voices easy to follow, and interpretation of the text engaging. I will definitely be looking for more books narrated by her.
Final thoughts: With an honest summary, this book would be much better. As it is, this book presents a deep tragedy and an exploration of generational trauma and violence towards women instead of the funky, fun, lighthearted romance that is promised but never delivered.
But this book is not that book. It is not a “fresh, fun, and enchanting romantic comedy” as described. It is full of dark, triggering content. The real focus of the story (Shobi, her choices, how they impacted Ashna, and their mother-daughter relationship) isn’t mentioned at all in the summary. This book was the worst kind of bait and switch. I wouldn’t have picked it up if the summary was reliable because I was looking for a light hearted romance, not a heavy book with personally triggering content.
Even more upsetting is that I think both stories this book tries to tell had a real chance to be great.
Ashna’s exes to lovers story with Rico had the chance to be really sweet. The framework is there and the times that the book focuses on them is actually really fun - they have a cute dynamic! But their story, allegedly the focus of the novel, is pushed to the background and never given the room it needs to grow well. It is overshadowed by Shobi’s plot and, as a result, is under developed, suffers from really funky timing, and has an ending that doesn’t feel deserved.
Shobi’s forced marriage story has the potential to be a nuanced, heartbreaking, and fascinating story, but it has no business being in this novel. She is set up to be such an unsympathetic character at the beginning that the bulk of the novel is spent justifying her choices and attempting to redeem her, to the detriment of both her story and the alleged a-plot. And because we have to go back to the alleged a-plot romance, Shobi’s story suffers from horrible tone shifts (discussing the horrors of her marriage and then switching to Ashna and Rico having a conversation is whip lash inducing and negatively impacts both stories) and has to rely on stereotype to fast track story telling. Her story should have been its own book, then it could’ve been given the care and space it needed to be a fully developed story told the way it should be told. As it is, the plot has all the subtlety of a baseball bat and feels uncomfortable and out of place in what is billed as a fun and lighthearted rom com.
Separating out the two stories would result in a fun, sweet romance and a thoughtful, devastating look at the some of horrors that women face. Putting them in the same novel cheapens both stories, resulting in a muddled narrative that suffers from focus and pacing issues. The ending in particular is rushed and feels unearned, with more importance given to a happily ever after and tying everything up in a bow than actually addressing the consequences of the narrative.
I haven’t read Persuasion, so I can’t speak to how much inspiration it actually pulls from the book, but I spent a lot of the book going “this can’t be what Persuasion is about.”
The only reasons this book didn’t get zero stars from me is the strength of the writing - Sonali Dev writes beautifully - and the strength of the narration. Soneela Nankani did a fantastic job narrating this book. Her pacing was great, character voices easy to follow, and interpretation of the text engaging. I will definitely be looking for more books narrated by her.
Final thoughts: With an honest summary, this book would be much better. As it is, this book presents a deep tragedy and an exploration of generational trauma and violence towards women instead of the funky, fun, lighthearted romance that is promised but never delivered.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Alcoholism, Rape, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Death of parent, and Abandonment
Moderate: Emotional abuse and Misogyny
Minor: Abortion