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Stop Pretending: What Happened When My Sister Went Crazy by Sonya Sones

martinej's review against another edition

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emotional sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? N/A
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A

3.5

thebrainlair's review against another edition

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4.0

Stop Pretending by Sonya Sones (1999)

lmjones's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.0

I don’t love YA books written as a series of poems and/or vignettes. Still trying to put my finger on why. I guess I just want more substance and less… melodrama? All in all, I thought it was really cool that this was based on her own experience and how understandable her reactions to everything were. And I love a book that fights stigma. So even if the writing wasn’t my cup of tea, I’m glad I read it and would recommend.

afletche's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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amme's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? N/A
  • Loveable characters? N/A
  • Diverse cast of characters? N/A
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A

3.0

kmcneil's review against another edition

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5.0

One Christmas Eve, 13-year-old Cookie's big sister has a nervous breakdown: "A wild-eyed Jewish girl wearing only a nightgown," she rushes out the door to Midnight Mass. Following this manic moment, the sister is institutionalized. This haunting novel, told entirely in Cookie's first-person poems, is the story of what happens in the wake of this emotional disaster. Some of it is heartbreakingly predictable--Cookie is terrified that she will have a breakdown, her former friends shun her, her parents' marriage begins unraveling. But there are wonderful surprises, too: Cookie is introduced to photography and finds in it an opportunity to heal herself and her sister; a new boy comes to school, and he and Cookie fall in love. The poems--some as short as five lines, none longer than three pages--have a cumulative emotional power that creeps up on the reader, culminating in a moving, unexpected line or phrase: "I blink / and there you suddenly are / inhabiting your eyes again. . . and I'm feeling all lit up / like a jar filled / with a thousand fireflies." Such small moments become large in the context of their promise of healing and their demonstration of life's power to continue. Based on Sones' own family experience, this debut novel shows the capacity of poetry to record the personal and translate it into the universal‰Ы_--Michael Cart

dogeared88's review against another edition

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3.0

I enjoyed this. It was easy to read and I liked the nice ending, as well as the author's note at the end explaining this was something close to her heart. I'm working on getting my degree to be a librarian, just like the sister. :)

katscribefever's review against another edition

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3.0

I chose to read this particular verse novel because it gives a perspective not often seen, that of the people living in close proximity to someone struggling with mental illness. When author Sonya Sones was only twelve years old, her older sister had a total nervous breakdown that led to her placement in a psychiatric ward. She was diagnosed as manic-depressive, though she had never exhibited any signs before the incident. This novel is the author's bold attempt to reach out and open up discussions about mental illness that will foster compassion for those who live with mental illness every day.

emilyjoy828's review against another edition

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4.0

Very moving, especially for a YA book.

edav48's review against another edition

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5.0

intense and amazing... a short read that is sure to make you cry even if it's just a little... once you start it you can't stop.. seriously... I started reading the first few pages in the bookstore and the next thing i knew i literally sat in the corner of the bookstore for the next hour or so completely engrossed in the book and didn't stop until I finished it...