neemsneems's review against another edition
3.0
3.5* A topical story for the current state of immigration related affairs in the USA. To see the story unfold from the perspective of Deming and Polly together, see it separate and then come together again was great. This book has a happy ending but most of the real life stories don’t. The beginning of this book dragged, I understand the set up but the first 25% is quite slow. After that the story and its characters gain more dimension and the pay off feels worthwhile.
nerdyrev's review against another edition
5.0
The Leavers by Lisa Ko is a Book of the Month pick this month, but I will be honest in stating I did not pick it as one of my selections for the month. My box already had my 3 choices, so when it came out, I picked it up on my own. I am glad I did as it is a book that had me thinking, it stuck with me, and it was just a great read even in the midst of the difficult topics.
The book opens with Deming Guo and his mother Polly. They are living in a tiny apartment in NYC with relatives and life is a struggle, but all seems well. Polly goes off to work one day and does not return. Deming is brought to child services where he is adopted by a NY suburban couple and is given the name Daniel.
Daniel isn't the perfect child, he struggles in school, he kind of coasts through life, and winds up with a gambling addiction and isolates himself from his friends.
Daniel is haunted by his memories of his previous life. He knows he is not Daniel, but Deming and he knows his mother is out there somewhere, so he begins his search for her and what happened that day.
The narrative shifts to Polly's story. It is a story of coming into NY as an undocumented pregnant woman who is dropped off alone in the world. She has always been independent, but now she is in NY and must work low wage jobs to make ends meet. She has to make tough choices in her life to protect her son. Her life is a life of struggle and frustration as she knows this isn't the life she wants. Her narrative takes us back to the day she left Deming behind because she was arrested and deported in an immigration raid (not a spoiler).
A lot more happens, but I would start walking into spoiler territory, so I am going to end there.
I have to write, I loved the parallel lives. Both Daniel and Polly are in places and situations they don't want to be in. They are missing their identities and travel the world kind of lost. Both have major struggles, but they are incredibly different struggles. It was a great piece on identity and not being content with oneself.
The writing in the book drew me in and I just flew through this book. The story doesn't ever really slow at all and at times I didn't want to put it down. It isn't that a lot happens, but you do care about Daniel and Polly. The emotional pull of almost resenting Polly for what she did and the pull back to loving her because she had no other choice, but to give up Deming was a roller coaster.
I cannot recommend this one enough. This is a pure drama, so don't expect comedy breaks or a beach read. This is just a great book that needs time to marinade with.
I gave this one 5 stars.
The book opens with Deming Guo and his mother Polly. They are living in a tiny apartment in NYC with relatives and life is a struggle, but all seems well. Polly goes off to work one day and does not return. Deming is brought to child services where he is adopted by a NY suburban couple and is given the name Daniel.
Daniel isn't the perfect child, he struggles in school, he kind of coasts through life, and winds up with a gambling addiction and isolates himself from his friends.
Daniel is haunted by his memories of his previous life. He knows he is not Daniel, but Deming and he knows his mother is out there somewhere, so he begins his search for her and what happened that day.
The narrative shifts to Polly's story. It is a story of coming into NY as an undocumented pregnant woman who is dropped off alone in the world. She has always been independent, but now she is in NY and must work low wage jobs to make ends meet. She has to make tough choices in her life to protect her son. Her life is a life of struggle and frustration as she knows this isn't the life she wants. Her narrative takes us back to the day she left Deming behind because she was arrested and deported in an immigration raid (not a spoiler).
A lot more happens, but I would start walking into spoiler territory, so I am going to end there.
I have to write, I loved the parallel lives. Both Daniel and Polly are in places and situations they don't want to be in. They are missing their identities and travel the world kind of lost. Both have major struggles, but they are incredibly different struggles. It was a great piece on identity and not being content with oneself.
The writing in the book drew me in and I just flew through this book. The story doesn't ever really slow at all and at times I didn't want to put it down. It isn't that a lot happens, but you do care about Daniel and Polly. The emotional pull of almost resenting Polly for what she did and the pull back to loving her because she had no other choice, but to give up Deming was a roller coaster.
I cannot recommend this one enough. This is a pure drama, so don't expect comedy breaks or a beach read. This is just a great book that needs time to marinade with.
I gave this one 5 stars.
momofwestnpop's review against another edition
3.0
I enjoyed it! Kind of slow and the main characters choices annoyed me! Get it together! But the story is lovely and what the mom went through is heartbreaking.
chrisanegron's review against another edition
5.0
I absolutely fell in love with this. Was a bit of a slow start but then I got hooked. This story is so beautiful: struggling with where you came from, where you’re going and what home really means. Brilliant writing here. Polly and Deming in my heart 5ever.
katreadsalot's review against another edition
4.0
This was a beautiful, if heartbreaking story, excellently narrated by Emily Woo Zeller. This is a story about Deming, whose mother goes to work one day, and then doesn't come home. As the consequences of that play out throughout the book, I really appreciated seeing how Deming as a flawed and complicated individual, dealt with what happened and gained a measure of peace. It was slow in some parts, but by the end, I couldn't put it down.
tishreads's review against another edition
4.0
I really enjoyed this book. I liked the ambiguity of the characters - everyone had their flaws and there was no "easy" decisions. The author wrote in a way that easily evoked emotions and allowed me to envision the surroundings. I would have liked more from the ending. Not more closure, just I feel there were better places to stop the story.
xisamu's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
krubin's review against another edition
5.0
Wow, I loved it.
It was the right book for the right time.
So much about families and different perspectives.
It was the right book for the right time.
So much about families and different perspectives.