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A Tale for the Time Being by Ruth Ozeki

7 reviews

textual_sensations's review against another edition

emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring reflective tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I LOVED THIS BOOK!!! One of my favorites!

In this mesmerizing novel, Ruth Ozeki weaves a tale that transcends time, space, and, culture. The story follows two seemingly disparate narratives - that of a young Japanese girl, Nao, and an American novelist, Ruth - which eventually intersect in profound ways.

Ozeki's masterful storytelling will transport you to the streets of Tokyo, the coast of British Columbia, and the depths of human consciousness. Her writing is both poignant and humorous, as she explores themes of identity, family, and the power of stories to connect us across generations.

Nao's journey, in particular, will capture your heart - her struggles with bullying, her love for her grandmother, and her quest for meaning in a chaotic world. You'll find yourself rooting for her from the very beginning.

Ruth's narrative offers a fascinating exploration of the writing process, the importance of storytelling, and the interconnectedness of all things.

As the two narratives converge, Ozeki reveals the profound impact that our individual stories can have on one another. It's a testament to the power of empathy, compassion, and understanding.

"A Tale for the Time Being" is a must-read for anyone who loves stories that linger long after the final page is turned. It's a book that will make you laugh, cry, and contemplate the very nature of existence. Trust me, you won't regret immersing yourself in this extraordinary tale.

Overall, If I had to sum it up as short as possible I would say, “A Tale for the Time Being" is a nuanced blend of introspection, empathy, and wonder, inviting readers to immerse themselves in the characters' experiences and reflect on their own lives. The book tackles tough subjects, it does so in a thoughtful and poetic way, making it more suitable for readers who appreciate a lyrical and introspective writing style.

Content Warnings

Minor: Cursing, Mental illness, Sexual content, and Suicide attempt

“A Tale for the Time Being" by Ruth Ozeki contains themes and content that may be triggering for some readers, including: 1. Suicide ideation and attempts: Nao's struggles with depression and suicidal thoughts are portrayed in a realistic and sensitive manner. 2. Bullying: Nao faces severe bullying at school, which may be distressing for some readers. 3. Mental health struggles: The novel explores themes of depression, anxiety, and PTSD. 4. Loss and grief: The story deals with the loss of loved ones and the emotional aftermath. 5. Environmental disaster: The novel touches on the Fukushima Daiichi nuclear disaster and its consequences. 6. Cultural displacement and identity struggles: Nao's experiences as a Japanese-American may resonate with readers who have faced similar struggles. 7. some sexual content and brief strong language. While these themes are handled with care and sensitivity, it's essential to be aware of them before reading the book. If you're concerned about triggers, consider reaching out to a mental health professional or a trusted adult for support. The themes and content in "A Tale for the Time Being" are handled with sensitivity and nuance, and while they may be intense and emotional, I would describe them as more mild than graphic. The author, Ruth Ozeki, approaches these topics with a thoughtful and poetic touch, without explicit or gratuitous descriptions. For example, while Nao's struggles with suicidal thoughts and self-harm are deeply affecting, they are not graphically depicted. The focus is on her emotional journey and the impact of her experiences on her life, rather than explicit descriptions of self-harm or suicidal acts. Similarly, the bullying scenes are more suggestive than explicit, conveying the emotional pain and distress Nao experiences without gratuitous details. The novel's approach is more lyrical and introspective, emphasizing the characters' emotional and psychological journeys over graphic content. However, individual reader sensitivities may vary, and it's always important to prioritize self-care and well-being when engaging with potentially triggering material.

alyssapusateri's review against another edition

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adventurous dark emotional hopeful reflective sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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miciahsreads's review against another edition

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dark emotional inspiring mysterious reflective slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

characters - 1
worldbuilding - .75
plot - .75
enjoyment - .75
writing - 1

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thmei's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful inspiring reflective fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

i adored this book. it just worked for me in every possible way. i related so much to nao’s perspective , even when the events of our lives deviated, and the way ruth ozeki captured the inner dialogue of a 16 year old felt so authentic and intelligently done. i may have loved ruth’s parts even more. i know a lot of people didn’t really like her story, but i adored it. i totally understood the experience of feeling consumed by someone else’s story and i loved how much of ruth you still saw in her story despite how much nao’s diary came to affect her. i adored ruth and all the other people in her life and i thought inserting herself and her husband as characters gave this novel a really interesting relationship to truth that played with nao’s story in such a cool way. and the ending. i know people hated this too. i tend to read negative reviews before i pick something up just to see if i think its flaws might bother me and to make sure a book isnt gonna spring a super triggering or bigoted scene or anything like that on me, and when i read about the sharp left turn into magical realism, i thought for sure i’d hate the ending too. instead i adored it. it felt very well foreshadowed to me, so while there’s one scene that very clearly marks the tip off the edge of our world, it didn’t feel shocking to me when that happened. several things in this book go very pointedly unexplained and several things happen that are obviously supernatural, and while you can explain them away as being imagined or made up, i don’t think the text makes them feel that way at all. a magical ending felt like the right place to go. plus, it felt like the only way to satisfy the story. what happened at the end felt like what needed to happen. it served the rest of the story well.

this book explored a lot of themes in a very tangible, human way and that’s what i loved about it. i think i could talk about it for ages. it obviously won’t work for everyone, but i personally am very glad i picked it up. if you’re a writer, a big reader, someone who feels a little lost or a little lonely, someone who had a rough childhood or shitty parents, or someone who likes to think about life or death or truth or memory or love or anything else in the synopsis, give it a shot.

i’m going to keep the content warning explanations as spoiler free as possible but i do still want to explain the big things, because i think there are some things you can skip around if you have to, and for some you should avoid this book entirely if you think they might trigger you. i’ve marked pretty much everything as spoilers so if you’re just looking for one specific explanation, you can choose that. i know i always want explanations so hopefully someone finds them helpful.

Content Warnings

Graphic: Bullying, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Suicide attempt

Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Dementia, Death of parent, Toxic friendship, and War

Minor: Animal cruelty, Cursing, Death, and Racial slurs

BULLYING:

nao endures some pretty terrible physical and emotional bullying and it takes up the majority of her story. even during the parts where it isn’t currently happening, it’s often mentioned.

SEXUAL ASSAULT/SEXUAL VIOLENCE, ADULT/MINOR RELATIONSHIP, BLOOD, TOXIC FRIENDSHIP:

at one point nao is ambushed in a bathroom by her classmates. they take pictures of her using the bathroom, attack her as she tries to run away, lift up her skirt, and steal her underwear. they try to convince each other to rape her, but no one does. later they put her underwear up for auction online, which is brought up several times throughout the book. she is on her period at the time.

it is obvious when this scene will happen, so easy to skip if any of this will trigger you.

the auction

, however, is mentioned several times after.

nao also befriends the head of a brothel by accident and starts doing sex work, and while it doesn’t seem like she thinks of herself as a prostitute and she calls the two men “dates,” she knows there’s money involved and the second encounter especially is not voluntary. neither are described as very violent and the first nao even describes as quite pleasant, but both are still sex work with older men and in the second she describes going to another place in her mind to cope. the sex is not super graphic in either but it is described.

SUICIDE, VOMIT: this is a main theme of this book. several suicide attempts are described (vomit is described, and the cleaning up of vomit). nao and her father are both intent, from page one, on committing suicide. nao’s perspective was not triggering for myself as someone who was suicidal for a long time, but i think someone who is currently suicidal should absolutely avoid this book, and someone who has been affected by the suicide/suicidal thoughts of someone close to them should be careful. PHYSICAL ABUSE, VIOLENCE:

nao’s physical abuse by her bullies is described. a relative of nao’s was a wwii soldier, and his physical abuse by his superiors is described.

it’s not terribly graphic, but it is not really avoidable. WAR:

nao’s relative is conscripted as a suicide bomber. his letters and diary describe his time in training and his facing death.

no active war scenes are described, but the broad topic of wwii is discussed at length. DEATH OF PARENT, DEMENTIA: ruth’s mom died of dementia before the events of the book. she reminisces about her mother and is insecure about her own sometimes failing memory. nao also thinks often of her own father’s potential death. ANIMAL CRUELTY: no human being is cruel to an animal! this is the closest tag there is to something like “animal injury” and i thought this scene should be tagged.

two characters in ruth’s story mention losing their animals to other wildlife- not in graphic detail but they mention being sad and one character’s wife describes him following a dog and watching, unable to save it. towards the end of the book, ruth’s cat goes missing and is found severely injured by another animal. the injury is described for a sentence or two. the cat does not die.

CURSING: not graphic or common at all. just put it so those who hate cursing will be prepared to hear a word or two. if i remember correctly, there’s a couple normal curse words and a couple instances of nao being a crude teenager and mentioning genitalia or thinking about violent situations. DEATH:

a major character dies at the end. it is not violent or particularly upsetting. it is sad.

RACIAL SLURS:

no character uses racial slurs in a violent, angry, or assaulting manner. ruth, a japanese woman, uses the word j*p to describe a house where an old japanese family used to live before japanese internment in wwii. if i remember correctly, this is the only slur and it’s only used once or twice in the very beginning of the book.

jameslyons's review against another edition

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adventurous funny mysterious reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? No
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0

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kateschu's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional inspiring reflective

Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

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joshlegere's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging emotional funny informative reflective sad tense slow-paced

Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

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