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kaylee_kale's review against another edition
1.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Violence, Medical content, Medical trauma, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
swifterel22's review against another edition
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Death of parent, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Body shaming, Child abuse, Toxic relationship, Blood, and Alcohol
Fuck thiskiwichill's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Child abuse, Child death, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Medical content, Stalking, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
Domestic violence portrayed graphicallypeckreadsbooks's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? N/A
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A
Moderate: Bullying, Child death, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Violence, Stalking, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
The biggest content warning in this book belongs to the content it self. Just awful.emptzuu's review against another edition
Colleen Hoover's portrayal of women in her work is deeply troubling due to its tendency to reduce them to passive objects reliant on the choices and actions of male characters for agency. Her inclination to romanticize toxic masculinity, unhealthy codependent relationships, and abusive behavior is concerning, particularly in media aimed at young adult females, which ideally should promote healthy lessons about consent, boundaries, and sexual pleasure. Her narratives perpetuate the damaging notion that women cannot be independent or find fulfillment outside of romantic entanglements, reinforcing harmful societal norms.
Hoover's expressed disapproval and dislike for trigger warnings is irresponsible and inconsiderate. Despite acknowledging that some readers may have sensitive past experiences, she dismisses the need for warnings about potentially triggering content in her books. In This Ends With Us, Hoover claims to depart from her usual entertainment-focused approach, yet the execution remains similar to her previous works, undermining any attempt at a serious exploration of sensitive issues.
The supposed plotline wherein Ryle's abusive nature gradually becomes apparent does not align with the initial portrayal of his character. From the outset, Ryle exhibits concerning behavior, such as violent outbursts and coercive sexual advances, which should serve as clear warning signs of his abusive tendencies. He is portrayed as someone who does bad things rather than inherently bad. This approach raises questions about whether Hoover intended to highlight his manipulative nature or genuinely believed in his potential redemption. However, Ryle's actions, including attempted rape and manipulation, unequivocally paint him as an irredeemable abuser. Attempts to portray him as conflicted or charitable do not negate the harm he inflicts. The fact that there are still individuals excusing his behavior is deeply troubling, especially considering the severity of his actions.
Ryle weaponizes his trauma to manipulate and guilt-trip Lily. While it's understandable to sympathize with his past experiences, using them to manipulate and abuse Lily is unacceptable. Blaming his abuse on his trauma is misguided and dangerous, as it shifts responsibility away from his actions and onto external factors.
Internal misogyny is also evident in Hoover's writing. Lily postponing her decision to divorce Ryle until after having a baby because she believes her hormones would affect her judgment is an example of this. Additionally, Ryle only showing remorse after Lily compares his actions to potential harm to their future daughter echoes the societal pattern of men understanding wrongdoing only when it's related to their female relatives, which is deeply upsetting.
The lack of a conclusive stance at the end of the book is disappointing. Allowing Ryle to retain custody suggests a potential redemption arc, which contradicts the gravity of his actions. A clearer condemnation of Ryle's behavior and a discussion on the cycle of abuse within the narrative would have provided a more impactful conclusion, emphasizing the conscious and purposeful nature of his manipulative and abusive actions.
The subplot involving Atlas detracts from the book's intended message. Depicting Lily's salvation by another man undermines the narrative's focus and reinforces damaging stereotypes. Furthermore, framing Lily's choice between Ryle and Atlas oversimplifies complex relationships and diminishes the gravity of the abuse she endured.
Hoover's response to controversy, including her handling of her son's alleged sexual assault towards a minor and plans for a coloring book based on "It Ends With Us", undermines her credibility as an author. In light of these issues, Colleen Hoover's work is indefensible, and her reputation stands tarnished in my view.
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, and Toxic relationship
nixicat1's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
1.0
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual violence, Violence, Blood, Grief, and Death of parent
bmz's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Rape, Death of parent, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
naimoai's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, Pregnancy, and Sexual harassment
lauraerna's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
1.0
Graphic: Ableism, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Toxic relationship, and Gaslighting
eddddd_9378's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Toxic relationship, and Pregnancy