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Dear Friend, from My Life I Write to You in Your Life, by Yiyun Li

steph_davidson's review against another edition

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3.0

2019-7.

melissyteapot73's review against another edition

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challenging reflective slow-paced

2.75

blairebyg's review against another edition

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reflective sad slow-paced

3.75

deborahrosegreen's review against another edition

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dark reflective sad slow-paced

3.0

SpoilerYiyun, having moved from Bejing to America, reflects on her experience in a mental health hospital after attempting suicide. She tries to justify suicide whilst condemning it through descriptions of other authors deaths such as the Zweigs. She reads the diaries and letters of dead authors to try and understand them, discusses fatalism and the concept of ‘natural language’.


I deeply related to various sections, especially near the beginning, although I have to say that as it went on I felt as though the author was really overthinking certain concepts to the point where it felt uncomfortable. Perhaps that was the point. After that I didn’t enjoy it, except the section about language which I found both engaging and inspiring. Overall, I agree with the author that the book was an indulgence on her part because, with a lot of respect, I can’t think of any other reason why she would write it. It spun me in circles and flipped me upside down. Having finished, I feel dizzy rather than enlightened.

gerdash's review against another edition

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sad slow-paced

4.5


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okcooger's review against another edition

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dark emotional mysterious reflective sad medium-paced

4.0

ems1602's review

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challenging hopeful reflective sad slow-paced

4.0

Started this book over a year ago, stopped at page 35. Felt I wasn’t in a good enough place to read it. 
Finished it today. This book was a recommendation from the shop keeper, after I had asked for something with light in it. 
This book feels like an afternoon spent under the branches of a tree; luminous at times, too bright to keep your eyes open, and you get lost figuring out shapes in the clouds of the author’s thoughts. I resonated with her relationship to language; writing; memory. 
This memoir feels like a delicate watercolor. 

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tanwanqin's review against another edition

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challenging dark reflective slow-paced

2.75

cais's review against another edition

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dark emotional inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

5.0

gjpeace's review against another edition

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3.0

Rating: 3.5

There are some remarkable passages here and then there are passages where I asked myself what in the world she was talking about.