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You Will Not Have My Hate by Sam Taylor, Antoine Leiris

abbyinthepages's review against another edition

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5.0

this was a beautifully and painfully written autobiography

lady_moon's review against another edition

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2.5

Смятам, че имаше някои паргарфи, които бяха написани наистина красиво и грабващо. Може би е това отчасти се дължи и на превода. Моя основен проблем беше със структурата на книгата. Беше странно оформена и караше слабите страни на стила на писане да изпъкват. В крайна сметка, личи си, че авторът е написал това най-вече за себе си, отколкото за някой друг - и щом това му е помогнало да се справи, в това няма нищо лошо.

neilsj's review against another edition

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emotional sad fast-paced

4.5

mfinch76's review against another edition

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5.0

I was afraid reading this would feel like exploiting a family's tragedy. I was afraid reading this would bring up too much of my old griefs.

There is beauty in the way Leiris shares his pain and somehow, reassures me that I will continue to live through mine.

bashsbooks's review

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emotional reflective sad medium-paced

4.0

You Will Not Have My Hate is a poetic reflection on a violent, sudden, and tragic loss. Leiris invites the reader in to his world (and his son's) after losing beloved wife and mother Hélène to the November 2013 terrorist attacks. Leiris has such a fine and visceral way of describing grief, of showing how he felt it so acutely. I was most taken by the part where he asks if he will have the right to be a complex and nuanced person after this tragedy and the subsequent popularity of his Facebook post addressed to the culprits. 

If I had one criticism, it would be that at times, Leiris seems to refer to his wife as if she were a lost possession of his and Melvil, or to suggest that his grief was somehow greater than that of her other close loved ones, like her mother. I don't know if that's a translation thing or what. But it struck me as awkward, and it happened more than once.  

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teresapetralia's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad fast-paced

4.0

this is not an easy read... i don't know how leiris manages to fit so much emotion in such a short read. i liked it but i wouldn't necessarily reccommend it.

r_said's review against another edition

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emotional reflective sad fast-paced

5.0

conor_h's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad fast-paced

5.0

kombucha_coordinated's review against another edition

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fast-paced

5.0

Ouch. That was very real and horrifically beautiful! The grief griefed. 

k_sanam's review against another edition

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emotional reflective sad fast-paced