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The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold

5 reviews

kly227's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.0

This book was extremely fascinating in the beginning. The premise is promising but it does not follow all the way through.
I found myself emotional many times during this book. It put me in a dark headspace going to bed each night, which was hard. I felt connected to the characters because the family set up is exactly like mine as a child- and I would have been Susie. I found myself empathizing so much for Susie and her family in the first half; I found this book to be a very real and very difficult demonstration of grief.
On the negative side… the characters were extremely flat and hardly had any purpose for the story. The development of the plot was strange- as I kept hoping it would go a certain way or that there was a reason I was learning something specific about a character, and it never came back. This was frustrating and made a lot of the random paragraphs of detail throughout the book literally pointless.

The end of this book was really rocky. There was a paranormal, tricky sex scene that was basically sexual assault (but is glorified to be this amazing, transcendent experience between a 14 y/o and a 20 y/o) that made me extremely uncomfortable. It did not align with the rest of the story and it ruined some characters for me. Loose ends with characters were never tied up or dealt with in any shape or form. Characters were never held accountable for their mistakes and nothing was ever reprimanded.
Finally, maybe this is a personal thing, but I was not happy that the lovely bones were never found. That was my desire the entire time, and maybe it’s more realistic that we lose the body of the person forever but darn it! There are still so many questions.

Going to watch the very low-rated movie now, wish me luck!

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challenging dark emotional hopeful reflective sad tense slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0

TW: this book mentions rape, murder, grief and loss of a child/sister, mental health among others.

From the get-go you are bombarded with the brutal and harrowing plot line that The Lovely Bones follows: a 14 year old girl in heaven is watching over her family and friends as they attempt to get to grips with her kidnap, rape, murder and dismemberment of her body by a neighbour. This graphic retelling is told and further alluded to throughout the book but the key themes penetrating the novel is how grief and the impact of Susie’s death has on those who knew her. The book is wholly from Susie’s POV up in heaven as she watched over all these people and how they get along with their lives without her. It is a rather slow-paced and character-focussed account as little happens but instead we try to understand people’s emotions and interactions. These all range from sad, depressing, tense, angry, harrowing, hopeful and many more. Obviously they are saddened by the loss of a daughter/sister/ love interest/acquaintance but we also are able to view this grief through each character’s lens. For example, Lindsey (Susie’s sister) is forced to take on more responsibility and is seen by many characters to be a replacement as such for her dead sister with the idea of having a ‘susie shadow’ which is referenced also in the father’s perspective. I believe this is done exceptionally well.

Sebold’s writing is very vivid and lifelike I’d say. She portrays very real characters and themes despite the central plot line being a girl in heaven (a contested place - if you can even call it that) and having some supernatural elements. I personally didn’t like this certain part in chapter 22 as was quite unexpected and unnecessary. However, I must admit the revelations Susie gains is a prominent message left to the reader. On this note of what we take from the book: before reading I was hoping to have a more ‘live in the moment’ attitude pronounced and to live every day to the fullest as we don’t know what will happen, but instead it didn’t give me this. I can’t quite articulate the impact of this book I guess it’s more a telling of the nuanced feelings and emotions that grief and loss of a loved one has on us. And for this, Sebold presents a hard to read account that eventually leads to a redemptive type of love. I really liked this part of the Daily Mail’s review that the authors “words are strung together like the most delicate of charm bracelets” which - if you read the book - are a returning message.

This was certainly a difficult book to read, wholly due to the content and graphic accounts of her murder and others committed by this man. But all in all it was written well, flawed but relatively loveable characters who do develop over time and a raw telling of the impact of grief. From not believing and hope she’ll come back through to acceptance and having to move on in a world without someone you love being there anymore. And likewise, from Susie’s viewpoint of letting your loved ones go no matter how much you want to come back to them and experience life again. Well written just with some personal ‘ehh’ moments. A solid 4 stars.

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