goodbyedarling's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Rape, Pedophilia, Addiction, Toxic relationship, Suicide attempt, Physical abuse, Eating disorder, Drug abuse, Sexual violence, Sexual harassment, Self harm, Death, Grief, Forced institutionalization, Emotional abuse, Blood, Sexual assault, Injury/Injury detail, Suicidal thoughts, Mental illness, Chronic illness, Child abuse, Car accident, and Vomit
Moderate: Racism, Acephobia/Arophobia, and Homophobia
prawdziwki's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
0.5
Graphic: Rape, Adult/minor relationship, Body horror, Child abuse, Sexual assault, Mental illness, Hate crime, Pedophilia, Death, Chronic illness, Ableism, Sexual violence, Physical abuse, Suicide attempt, Suicide, and Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Acephobia/Arophobia, Toxic friendship, Abandonment, Biphobia, Transphobia, Homophobia, Vomit, and Panic attacks/disorders
Minor: Drug use, Eating disorder, Outing, Addiction, Drug abuse, Medical content, Classism, Racism, and Grief
moomoochamp's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, Forced institutionalization, Injury/Injury detail, Body horror, Body shaming, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Suicide attempt, Addiction, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Rape, Suicide, Self harm, Sexual assault, Adult/minor relationship, Blood, Chronic illness, Dysphoria, Gore, Mental illness, Toxic relationship, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Sexual harassment, and Violence
Moderate: Abandonment, Drug use, Kidnapping, Medical content, Medical trauma, Drug abuse, Dementia, Ableism, Grief, Forced institutionalization, Chronic illness, and Gaslighting
Minor: Fire/Fire injury, Panic attacks/disorders, Acephobia/Arophobia, Racism, Religious bigotry, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , Toxic friendship, Cursing, Abandonment, Car accident, Fatphobia, and Vomit
emilyhunterr's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Chronic illness, Death, Forced institutionalization, Body horror, Sexual content, Violence, Vomit, Sexual violence, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Injury/Injury detail, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Body shaming, Child abuse, Drug abuse, Grief, Incest, Rape, Self harm, Suicide, Ableism, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, Abandonment, Acephobia/Arophobia, and Adult/minor relationship
jaybird_reads's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
I will begin this by saying that I am a queer disabled man, and it is for that reason (and my insatiable, sometimes harmful curiosity) that I read this book.
This book is not some great gay novel as so many have claimed. It is not even written about queerness; it just uses sex with men as one of the many ways that Jude is physically and emotionally tortured. Jude’s sexuality, trauma, and disability is not written with empathy — it is written with a sick fascination that is voyeuristic in nature.
Some of the characters are more than lovable. Some of the scenes and relationships are beyond beautiful. I cried over the first description of Jude’s pain because it was so similar to my own. I cried over the care that Harold showed Jude. I don’t care. The point of this book could have been achieved in 200 less pages and with less than half of the atrocities that were done to Jude.
I might write more later, but for now I have finally sat down and read (in one week) this 800 page trauma-porn novel that so many people are undeservedly obsessed with (most likely because our culture is obsessed with trauma and abuse, especially that visited upon queer men) and can finally say from personal experience: do not fucking read this book.
Graphic: Fire/Fire injury, Kidnapping, Medical content, Self harm, Sexual assault, Torture, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Ableism, Adult/minor relationship, Blood, Car accident, Chronic illness, Confinement, Death, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Hate crime, Injury/Injury detail, Suicide, Suicide attempt, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Sexual content, Violence, Body shaming, Child abuse, Child death, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual violence, Trafficking, Vomit, Addiction, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Gaslighting, Gore, Grief, Stalking, and Suicidal thoughts
Moderate: Acephobia/Arophobia and Alcohol
Minor: Cancer, Eating disorder, and Fatphobia
lanid's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Sexual assault, Suicide attempt, Addiction, Body horror, Child abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Torture, Abandonment, Trafficking, Blood, Body shaming, Domestic abuse, Gore, Medical content, and Pedophilia
Moderate: Forced institutionalization, Homophobia, Chronic illness, Kidnapping, Mental illness, Religious bigotry, Sexual violence, Car accident, Death, Dysphoria, Ableism, and Biphobia
Minor: Acephobia/Arophobia and Biphobia
stitchbooks22's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Injury/Injury detail, Toxic relationship, Violence, Eating disorder, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Classism, Cultural appropriation, Death, Adult/minor relationship, Biphobia, Car accident, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Rape, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Suicide, Toxic friendship, Emotional abuse, Vomit, Drug use, Gore, Medical trauma, Mental illness, Religious bigotry, Suicidal thoughts, Fatphobia, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, Forced institutionalization, Grief, Infidelity, Medical content, Outing, Ableism, Acephobia/Arophobia, Addiction, Blood, Body horror, Body shaming, Cancer, Child death, Drug abuse, Dysphoria, Abandonment, Suicide attempt, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, and Terminal illness
katharinaamaliae's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Car accident, Death, Acephobia/Arophobia, Eating disorder, Grief, Homophobia, Chronic illness, Injury/Injury detail, Mental illness, Sexual assault, Addiction, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Adult/minor relationship, Fire/Fire injury, Medical trauma, Physical abuse, Suicide attempt, Violence, Medical content, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicide, Emotional abuse, Child abuse, Gore, Racism, Rape, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Vomit, and Pedophilia
feijoamuffin's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Alcohol, Suicide attempt, Suicide, Sexual content, Self harm, Rape, Blood, Car accident, Sexual harassment, Sexual assault, Child abuse, Death, Sexual violence, Pedophilia, Body shaming, Adult/minor relationship, Addiction, Vomit, Violence, Toxic relationship, Torture, Suicidal thoughts, Child death, Physical abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Kidnapping, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, and Grief
Moderate: Biphobia and Acephobia/Arophobia
kirstenf's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Sexual assault, Pedophilia, Eating disorder, Suicidal thoughts, Injury/Injury detail, Mental illness, Rape, Suicide, Kidnapping, Abandonment, Suicide attempt, Blood, Fire/Fire injury, Physical abuse, Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Child abuse, Self harm, Medical content, Sexual violence, Grief, Domestic abuse, and Ableism
Moderate: Child death, Violence, Drug abuse, Death of parent, Addiction, Confinement, Acephobia/Arophobia, Alcohol, Death, Vomit, Chronic illness, and Car accident