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marissasa's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Rape, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Medical content, and Injury/Injury detail
muchadoaboutliz's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Ableism, Body shaming, Bullying, Cursing, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Vomit, Medical trauma, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Medical content, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Homophobia and Xenophobia
gibetal's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Rape, Sexual assault, Vomit, Medical trauma, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Racism
jettaparadis's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Rape, Sexual assault, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Mental illness, Physical abuse, Racism, Self harm, Sexual violence, and Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Ableism, Emotional abuse, and Injury/Injury detail
siobhanward's review against another edition
4.0
This is a really heavy book - it's worth checking out other reviews and trigger warnings before jumping in because there were definitely times that I had to put it down for a bit before continuing. Still a great read and I look forward to reading more.
Graphic: Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Vomit, Medical content, and Injury/Injury detail
biblioghoul's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Rape, Sexual violence, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Homophobia, Racism, Medical content, Medical trauma, and Injury/Injury detail
careinthelibrary's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Ableism, Addiction, Body shaming, Bullying, Chronic illness, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Vomit, Medical trauma, and Dysphoria
Moderate: Injury/Injury detail
chris_reads's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Ableism, Body shaming, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Rape, Toxic relationship, and Dysphoria
Moderate: Vomit and Medical content
Minor: Racism, Forced institutionalization, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
j_m_alexander's review against another edition
4.5
This is one of those memoirs that I don't think anyone can say they particularly "enjoyed", but anyone with an ounce of humanity and empathy should be able to relate to, appreciate, and be thankful for it.
At once painfully detailed and sparsely written. This is an author telling their truth (of her body), exploring their feelings about those truths (of her body), their parts in creating their own pain (regarding her body), being honest about those that created the wounds that will never fully heal and those that insist on rubbing salt in those wounds, as well as a society that dehumanizes, disgenders, and disrespects the bearer of these wounds (because of their views of her body). I have heard some characterize this book and the author as self-pitying or all-blaming, but I wonder whether they actually read the book (or lived a life). Gay does share her sadness, self-loathing, and anger - who can find fault in that? Who can't relate at least in some way to it? It's honest. It's relieving in some ways to hear so much hard truth revealed. It's simple (or it's extremely complicated). Roxane Gay does not ask for your pity in these pages. She explains what she's been through, her experiences, takes blame for what's hers to take and places blame on those that it be should placed on. If anything Roxane Gay is extremely self-critical, but she also demonstrates the characteristics of a sensitive, loving, intelligent mind, an admirable resilience, and wry sense of humor even when things seem bleak. We all hunger, we all strive to satisfy desires, we all adapt and develop defenses - this is so much of what it is to be human. This book is powerful and I am thankful for it.
Graphic: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Rape, Sexual violence, and Injury/Injury detail
zombiezami's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Mental illness, Misogyny, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Vomit, Medical content, Medical trauma, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Bullying, Chronic illness, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Grief, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, and Classism
Minor: Xenophobia