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You're the Only One I've Told: The Stories Behind Abortion by Meera Shah

5 reviews

lilsneakybandit's review

challenging emotional hopeful informative reflective slow-paced

4.5

Wonderful book that opened my eyes to many aspects of abortion I hadn’t considered before. Subtracted half a star because unfortunately I really didn’t like one of the narrators. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Rape, and Abortion

natreadthat's review against another edition

challenging emotional informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

5.0

I wish I had read this sooner. It feels almost dystopian after the overturn of Roe v. Wade (what doesn’t feel dystopian lately?). As you can imagine, this isn’t a fun read you chit-chat about. It is, however, a crucial book, especially in today’s political climate. Why are the decisions of pregnant people—often made together with their partner—political? Who the hell knows. 

What I do know is that abortion has become a major political argument, and the loudest voices are not the people who have actually had the procedure done. One in four American women will have an abortion, for a multitude of reasons, at some point in their lives. You’re the Only One I’ve Told shares the accounts of people who have. People who were young, people who couldn’t financially support another child, people who were in abusive relationships, people whose babies wouldn’t survive or would only know a life of pain, people who so badly wanted a baby. People shouldn’t have to be vulnerable in order for the world to listen and it shouldn’t be considered brave for doing so, but these people are. It’s the least we can do to listen. 

As a Texan/US woman, it’s been horrifying to have my rights stripped away. As a woman who has fortunately never had to make this decision, I learned so much from this book and what people seeking reproductive health care truly face. Stats, high costs, arbitrary waiting periods, time limits, restrictions, state-sponsored scripts not based on medical science, misinformation. 

Written by Dr. Shah, a reproductive health doctor, believes that medical care should be patient-centered and evidence-based. I’m not sure how you couldn’t agree with that. As someone who’s obviously pro-choice, I believe people who live in the Land of the Free deserve the freedom to choose what happens with their body. I hope you take the time to read this book and do so with an open heart.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Abortion and Pregnancy

Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infertility, Miscarriage, Racism, Sexual assault, and Medical content

Minor: Child abuse and Rape

blissofalife's review

emotional informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

4.0

I would recommend this book to anyone who wanted to understand the nuances of abortion and see how it affects everybody.

Very informative, very well written. I didn’t love switching narrators on the audiobook, one was clear and loud the other was soft and fuzzy.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Death, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Abortion, and Pregnancy

Moderate: Miscarriage, Misogyny, and Classism

Minor: Addiction, Alcoholism, Chronic illness, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infertility, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Blood, Religious bigotry, Gaslighting, and Alcohol

shannonmmay's review against another edition

emotional informative reflective medium-paced

4.5

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Content Warnings

Minor: Child abuse, Child death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infertility, Miscarriage, Rape, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Abortion, and Pregnancy

mscalls's review against another edition

challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective tense fast-paced

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Infertility, Miscarriage, Medical content, Medical trauma, and Abortion

Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Rape