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4.75

‘There was a psychiatrist who tried to put me on Prozac. I quoted Brave New World. “I want to know what passion is! I want to feel something strongly!” The psychiatrist responded, “I think that passion might be a chemical imbalance.”’

‘I didn’t just understand the weight of my abuse logically. I felt it, like a blade through flesh, like a bone popping out of place. I felt it like a lover saying it’s not going to work: sharp, immediate, and terrifying. I actually felt, with searing clarity, the horror of what happened to me—maybe for the first time ever. I felt how tremendously sad it was that I was forced to make my parents feel loved at such a young age. I felt how courageous I must have been to endure that torture, day after day for so many years, by the people I trusted most in this world. I felt a sense of love and adoration for my childhood self that I’d never been able to summon before.’






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5.0

wow. I’m so grateful i have had the opportunity to read this. 

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5.0

This is the best memoir I've ever read. It's so well-written, phenomenal on audio and one of my favorites this year so far. I loved the narration, plus the included audios of her therapy sessions. I loved how she went into details about history, hers and forgotten history, erased history. I loved how it felt like I was put under a microscope and dissected, but in actuality she was explaining her C-PTSD. At the end, the message of hope mirrored my own that I was lucky enough to find years ago. I wish I'd read this sooner, when I'd been drowning in my diagnosis. But the thing with C-PTSD is it's always there, so this will be helpful to read at any point in my life. 

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4.75

I’m not good at reviewing books that wow me, but this blew me away. I love a book that both moves me and educates me, and this did both in spades.

Foo narrates her journey toward self-discovery and well-being with incredible candor and immersive storytelling. Her writing feels effortless and inclusive: it’s not just her story but an invitation to the reader to join her on her journey.

I loved it. Highly, highly recommend. A favorite of the year, for sure.

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5.0

An absolute WOW of a book in so many ways. You're hooked right away by Foo's story of her childhood and the trauma she endured, trauma it's gutting to believe anyone actually has a life like that. 

I appreciate that the book is not totally chronological, but it doesn't jump around too much or in a confusing way. The order makes sense with the flow of the story and the pace at which both we and the author learn about her diagnosis and how she deals with and then goes through the healing process. You can tell that she's an amazing writer and storyteller.

There were parts that hit me hard personally too, like her being a workaholic at a toxic job while seeming super successful and like she has everything perfectly together. I'm honored that she shared her story and journey with complex PTSD. I appreciate her candidness and willingness to shed light on this very personal experience.

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