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3.75

I think this is a great alternative to some popular books on how PTSD can affect our bodies. It feels incredibly personal, but I'm thankful for the author letting us into their life through such an intimate retelling. I related to a lot as someone with chronic illness and trauma, but specifically this really helped me understand those I love who have C-PTSD. 

Definitely make sure you read content warnings before reading! While I know this is realistic because it is a retelling of the author's experiences, it can be a bit shocking to listen-especially if you resonate with some of the experiences. 

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4.5

Despite the challenging subject matter, I enjoyed this book immensely. I knew Stephanie Foo is a fantastic storyteller from TAL. While the story is horrifying, the way she tells it is captivating, and she weaves in history, culture, and so much research and science. I am so glad she wrote this book. I do not have a history of complex trauma like the author, but I have volunteered with children who have experienced complex trauma and in some ways I could even see my own experiences in the stories shared in this book. It’s both a singular, very personal memoir, but also illuminating about how across many cultures we hide our pain, how suffering is encoded in our genes, how medical professionals can exacerbate issues by ignoring the brain/body connection, how racism amplifies and causes complex trauma, and much more that reveals so much about all of us. I think it would be a valuable read for anyone and so insightful about the pain so many people live with. 

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4.75

I’m not good at reviewing books that wow me, but this blew me away. I love a book that both moves me and educates me, and this did both in spades.

Foo narrates her journey toward self-discovery and well-being with incredible candor and immersive storytelling. Her writing feels effortless and inclusive: it’s not just her story but an invitation to the reader to join her on her journey.

I loved it. Highly, highly recommend. A favorite of the year, for sure.

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5.0


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5.0

Luckily, Stephanie Foo did not just write a memoir - as a journalist, she researches very well and takes the reader on a journey from her childhood to the first real results of her recovery. 
By doing so, she doesn’t try to paint a picture of a miracle healing, but shows, how hard it is to find individual solutions in a dysfunctional medical system where not enough professionals are familiar with this young diagnosis. She elaborates how racism and sexism play a part in c-ptsd and does not shy away from talking about genetics and intergenerational trauma.

At some points in the early chapters the abuse is written quite graphic, so be aware of that, otherwise I’d say it is the perfect book for someone recently diagnosed with c-ptsd or people who are close to someone with this diagnosis. It also has a lot of quotes for follow-up-literature.


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4.75


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5.0

This is one of those books that I think everyone should read, because even though it's about one person's experience with having complex PTSD, it's so much more than that. It really made me reflect on my relationships with my friends and family, how I treat people, and how I treat myself.  I definitely want to reread it because it was filled with so much information and thought, it seems like one of those books that you have to read multiple times to get everything out of it. It's definitely a tough read at times, but very worth it.

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5.0


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