Take a photo of a barcode or cover
aimeesbookishlife's review
4.0
Moderate: Child abuse, Pedophilia, and Sexual assault
spudoodles's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Cancer, Child abuse, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, and Sexual assault
misskatz's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Child abuse
Moderate: Pedophilia and Death of parent
blueberryqueen's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Pedophilia, Sexual violence, and Death of parent
Moderate: Bullying and Homophobia
laurajordensharris's review
4.25
Graphic: Addiction, Adult/minor relationship, Alcoholism, Bullying, Cancer, Child abuse, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Sexism, Sexual assault, Terminal illness, Dementia, Grief, Death of parent, Gaslighting, Abandonment, and Alcohol
rachel26's review
5.0
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Cancer, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Grief, and Death of parent
tyromancy's review
4.75
Graphic: Child abuse, Pedophilia, and Sexual assault
sneffuhknee's review
5.0
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Pedophilia, Sexual assault, and Grief
watermelleon's review against another edition
5.0
Warning: this is not an easy read. There were times I had to pause, and take a breath, or contemplate what was being said. It is very triggering for many reasons, quite graphic in detail, and for this reason I imagine is very difficult for a lot of readers.
One thing I did not expect from this read was how nuanced it would be written. This is not a sob story where someone is feeling forced to sell their journey as trauma porn for others to feel something over. This is a delicate, intelligent, and well thought out commentary on the society we live in, toxic masculinity, the fickle nature of sexuality, the social and physical effects of childhood trauma, the attraction of dangerous volunteers to risky roles, the court system, the police, feminism, and generational trauma (to name just a few!)
At one point, Alan touched upon a particularly sore spot for me that I was not expecting to appear at all. But his conversational voice and facts presented reminded me the reader that survivors of trauma exist everywhere in so many forms and we all have learned lessons that have value when we are ready to reach out and discuss it with others.
I'm so glad to have picked the audio book version, which added another level of expertly guided feelings by Alan. He is a fantastic voice, and had me crying on many many bus journeys and walks.
An incredible last line that will stick with me for a long time as well. I wish for many of my friends and family members to read this.
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Bullying, Cancer, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Incest, Mental illness, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Terminal illness, Grief, Medical trauma, Death of parent, and Abandonment
Many people were shocked to hear that this is about Alan's experiences of Childhood sexual abuse by his father, not sure if it is in the marketing but had a few people mention they thought it was just about emotional abuse! The sexual abuse is very detailed and a big part of the book.katka_11's review
5.0
Graphic: Pedophilia and Sexual assault