anovellaidea's review
challenging
dark
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
moonyreadsbystarlight's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
tense
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
This has been on my TBR for quite a while and I honestly don't know how I've only just now read it. It's messy queer lit fic with little plot and lots of theme - definitely the kind of book for me.
The story starts when Wendy goes back to her Mennonite grandparents' small town to go to her grandmother's funeral. While there, she gets a call from a family friend who can no longer keep her late grandfather's secret queerness to herself. The speculation of the details of this secret and the nature of his queerness stays in the background as Wendy's life continues. Through the mundane details of her life, we see Wendy navigate alcoholism as she encounters several big life events. Some things are resolved eventually and others aren't, but I think this tension (or lack thereof in some cases) makes it feel more real.
As we see these events unravel, there is so much going on thematically. Many issues that lots of trans women face are brought up in the plot but even beyond that, there is discussion of transness, community, queer time, religion, family, and so much more. The most compelling thing to me, aside from the realness and vulnerability of the story, are the thematic elements (hence why today's experiment with picture editing features a theme word cloud). This is one that I think I could read multiple times and piece together more of what it has to say each time.
The story starts when Wendy goes back to her Mennonite grandparents' small town to go to her grandmother's funeral. While there, she gets a call from a family friend who can no longer keep her late grandfather's secret queerness to herself. The speculation of the details of this secret and the nature of his queerness stays in the background as Wendy's life continues. Through the mundane details of her life, we see Wendy navigate alcoholism as she encounters several big life events. Some things are resolved eventually and others aren't, but I think this tension (or lack thereof in some cases) makes it feel more real.
As we see these events unravel, there is so much going on thematically. Many issues that lots of trans women face are brought up in the plot but even beyond that, there is discussion of transness, community, queer time, religion, family, and so much more. The most compelling thing to me, aside from the realness and vulnerability of the story, are the thematic elements (hence why today's experiment with picture editing features a theme word cloud). This is one that I think I could read multiple times and piece together more of what it has to say each time.
Graphic: Transphobia, Homophobia, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Drug use, Sexual assault, Alcoholism, and Death
Moderate: Deadnaming
cottersbookcollection's review
emotional
hopeful
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Suicide, Transphobia, and Alcoholism
averyjaye's review
challenging
mysterious
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
An incredibly moving meditation on the meaning of transness, coping mechanisms, social responsibility, queer temporality, and the normative scripts we use to navigate the world.
Elements of this book are equal parts hard to look at, hard to look away from, and demand to be seen, understood, reinterpreted, and reunderstood. Casey Plett understands exactly what she is trying to say about the world, what experiences she's trying to share, and communicates it perfectly in a layered and intricate character-driven story that is, at times uncomfortable, yet tremendously eye-opening.
Elements of this book are equal parts hard to look at, hard to look away from, and demand to be seen, understood, reinterpreted, and reunderstood. Casey Plett understands exactly what she is trying to say about the world, what experiences she's trying to share, and communicates it perfectly in a layered and intricate character-driven story that is, at times uncomfortable, yet tremendously eye-opening.
Moderate: Sexual assault, Suicide, Sexual content, Rape, and Transphobia
Minor: Alcoholism
theelvencat's review against another edition
challenging
dark
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
cassandrapaige's review
emotional
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
sg124's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
sannawani's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0