sophie_pang's review

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informative inspiring reflective slow-paced

4.0

The Kellers explain the mission, power, & essence of marriage well. They compare cultural views on marriage with God-designed marriage (as written in the Word). They provide personal experiences & stories that explain these different concepts such as God-given gender roles well. 

matthewmcconnell's review

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4.0

This one took me a little while to get through, I’ll admit. I was skeptical during the opening chapters so I put it aside for a while, but came back to it and the book ended up being a fairly enjoyable read!

I am not married, nor do I found myself in a situation where I will be married soon, but when that time draws near, I think this is a book that will be very much worth re-reading. Lots of good content!

jaz_b's review against another edition

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4.0

I have never read a book that is so well-rounded and informative on the topic of biblical marriage as this is. Extremely helpful, practical, and makes you think. Plenty of moments this book has stirred my heart to pause and reflect deeply about marriage as a whole, in relation to the gospel, and individual roles. It is obvious that a lot of time and thought has been poured into the writing of this book. Highly recommend for singles and those waiting to be married!

mhope87's review

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3.0

The first few chapters were filled with insight, and I pored over them, taking notes and reflecting deeply. The second half of the book I didn't feel the same, and I flew through with less attention, with a few insights here and there. Looking at marriage as a reflection of the gospel, and of the trinity, our relational God, this overall message is very powerful. The chapter on gender roles made me think, and though I don't fully agree with it, I appreciate the clarification of headship/leadership of the husband as servant-leadership, modelled after Jesus, and not just the broken, patriarchal tradition of the world.

kimchihae's review

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medium-paced

4.0

teacheradb's review against another edition

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challenging hopeful informative inspiring reflective fast-paced

5.0

amandalywarren's review against another edition

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challenging inspiring reflective slow-paced

4.0

What a gracious conversation about marriage. Tim Keller takes an approach to marriage in this book that is unlike anything I have ever seen. Yet he dives into Scripture as he makes his explanations, and it all makes sense.

With a focus on what the Bible actually says, Keller builds a theology of marriage that sets aside cultural conversations and expectations. He addresses common questions and issues with grace, knowing that only a perfect marriage could measure up to the Biblical standard. This was a refreshing and encouraging take, as I expected the book to be a lot more formulaic.

Over and over, I found myself thinking, “Why aren’t people talking about marriage like this?” And while I weighed through the concepts in this book with a grain of salt, I really appreciated the conversation that Keller presented. The section written by Keller’s wife was especially encouraging, as she offered up perspectives that I had never heard or considered before.

Overall, I would recommend this book to anyone who is looking to form a biblical theology of marriage or learn what the Bible has to say about marriage.

sswertz's review

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challenging informative reflective medium-paced

5.0

kingtut101600's review

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challenging emotional hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

5.0

carriedoodledoo's review

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5.0

An excellent, scriptural book on marriage, that references the Bible often and well.

I'd highly recommend for any Christian--whether you're married or just starting to date. It helps you approach the idea with the right mindset. Interestingly, it also references the ideas of Gary Chapman, of "Five Love Languages" fame. A really good read!