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Shred Sisters by Betsy Lerner

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readingpicnic's review against another edition

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3.0

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher Grove Atlantic for a free digital ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review. 
This book started off very strong with setting up the family dynamics that largely stayed throughout the whole book, which moves slowly through the family’s lives and deaths. Ollie is a strong personality that kept my interest the whole book, even when she wasn’t always present. There are lots of conversations and ponderings on how your childhood home environment traumatizes you in less obvious ways that influence how you react to situations in adulthood. I will say that Amy was a very passive voice in this story that didn’t do much for me personally; she was Nick and Ollie was Gatsby in terms of Ollie feeling like the MAIN character who everything revolved around. Since the book is called Shred Sisters, I would have preferred for Ollie to have been more of a character than she was—it seemed like she was mostly defined by her mental illnesses and manic episodes, only really settling down when becoming a mother, which was…a strange way to resolve the book I think. I’m personally wary of books where motherhood is posed as a solution to a character’s life problems. There was also some casual fatphobia thrown in with the main character feeling glad and superior that her ex and his wife gained weight, and I can’t tell if that’s just an in-character thing for her to think??? The storytelling method also put me off quite a bit with the character occasionally speaking with insight from the present tense and commenting on moments of her life, which I wasn’t the biggest fan of. It began to feel like the jumps in time were essentially “and then this happened, and then this happened, and then I got a different lover, and then…” which I got tired of after a while. Again, I really enjoyed the beginning, and I wish that the book had stayed there longer (or for its entirety). A dual pov with Ollie also would have been interesting. Overall, I think the movement through time in this story wasn’t executed very well, and I lost interest towards the end.

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emotional sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

The second Shred Sisters came across my radar, I knew it was a book I needed to devour immediately. In this debut novel, Lerner places readers right at the center of a family rapidly deteriorating and shows us just how mental illness is an invisible string that effects everyone it touches. On the surface, Shred Sisters appears to be a story about mental illness but, more than that, it is a coming of age story about family, friendship, and the importance of continuing to move forward despite making mistakes. I was wildly impressed with how many layers there were to this story and these characters. Lerner does a fantastic job at emphasizing the nuances of mental illness and the ways in which mental illness not only physically challenges families and relationships but also the ways mental illness impacts the subconscious, especially over long periods of time. I loved how human Amy Shred's character was and felt very connected to her all throughout. The fact that there were no definitive diagnoses assigned to any of these characters, but rather we gain understanding of their struggles purely through their behaviors and actions is something I rarely feel we get to see in fiction tackling mental health. My only disappointment while reading was that I did feel the pacing got a little rushed towards the end of the book. Lerner truly could have written 100 more pages and I would have fully been seated to continue reading. For anyone who has read and loved All-Night Pharmacy by Ruth Madievsky, I think you will really love Shred Sisters as well!

Endless thanks to NetGalley and Grove Atlantic for allowing me access to an advanced copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. 

Shred Sisters will be published on October 1st, 2024

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