earlgreywithroom's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
A book about love, grief, the creative process, the fragility of life, the growing pains of youth, of creative work, of an ever evolving world; but above all, this is a book about people– people who are messy and selfish and passionately brilliant and infuriatingly complicated. Every character, even the ones that only appeared for a chapter, feels devastatingly real. Zevin's original (and occasionally risky) writing style echoes the ebbs and flows of her characters' lives, with stretches of mundanity broken up by sudden bursts of poetic inspiration. At times, it felt like I was navigating a riddle or a maze– one that I will only be able to fully appreciate on a second or third read-through. This is a story that will stay with me for a long time.
Graphic: Hate crime, Mass/school shootings, Grief, Mental illness, Chronic illness, Gun violence, Misogyny, Death of parent, Car accident, Medical trauma, and Injury/injury detail
Moderate: Sexism, Racism, Sexual harassment, Toxic relationship, Adult/minor relationship, and Sexual content
Minor: Pregnancy, Abandonment, Abortion, Cursing, Emotional abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, and Homophobia
amartin48's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
A beautifully written, heavy, saddening, yet inspiring story. A book about love, but not romantic love, indeed!
Graphic: Death of parent, Grief, Medical content, Toxic relationship, Ableism, Blood, Chronic illness, Car accident, Gun violence, Medical trauma, and Racism
Moderate: Confinement, Pregnancy, Sexual assault, Toxic friendship, Cursing, Gaslighting, Injury/injury detail, Panic attacks/disorders, and Mental illness
paulawind's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
I get why this book became so popular amongst Little Life lovers because this one is also a trauma and pain extravaganza. It starts innocent enough with two friends making games but halfway through the emotional pain starts and it only keeps getting worse and worse and worse till it became impossible for me to carry on reading. After a month-long break I came back, an apparent emotional masochist, to cry over Sam, over Sadie, over Marx, over their relationships, lack of thereof, their pain, their loneliness, their misunderstandings, their lack of communication, stubbornness, and that sheer amount of pure love that permeates every page.
The blurb is right - it is not a romance but it is story about love. It’s quite rare for books to put friendship at the forefront, with romance in the back, to show the complexities, messiness and importance of those connections that often transcend and outlast romantic relationships. Sadie and Sam’s story is epic. Often frustrating, overwhelming and contradictory but undeniably the most important connection in both their lives.
This book ripped my soul out, put my heart in the shredder and I’m saying thank you
Graphic: Grief, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Racial slurs, Chronic illness, Hate crime, Homophobia, Injury/injury detail, Mass/school shootings, Medical trauma, Blood, Pregnancy, Sexual content, Ableism, Violence, Acephobia/Arophobia, Death, Murder, Mental illness, Racism, Self harm, Sexism, Cancer, Gun violence, Medical content, Eating disorder, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Terminal illness, Antisemitism, Cursing, Misogyny, Toxic relationship, Car accident, and Death of parent
amykenney's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Grief, Medical content, Medical trauma, Toxic friendship, Injury/injury detail, Toxic relationship, and Death
Moderate: Cursing, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Sexual content, Chronic illness, Death of parent, Infidelity, and Mental illness
Minor: Hate crime, Homophobia, Pregnancy, Physical abuse, Abortion, Blood, Drug use, and Sexism
123aah456's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Moderate: Mental illness, Car accident, Death of parent, Toxic relationship, Grief, Homophobia, Medical content, Sexual assault, Hate crime, Injury/injury detail, Medical trauma, Chronic illness, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Ableism, and Murder
chewbeccadolly's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Sexual violence and Suicide
Moderate: Grief, Cursing, Drug use, Mass/school shootings, Abortion, Cancer, and Gun violence
annoyedhumanoid's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Spoiler
"'Zweisamkeit' is the feeling of being alone even when you're with other people." Simon turned to look in his husband's eyes. "Before I met you, I felt this constantly. I felt it with my family, my friends, and every boyfriend I ever had. I felt it so often that I thought this was the nature of living. To be alive was to accept that you were fundamentally alone." Simon's eyes were moist. "I know I'm impossible, and I know you don't care about German words or marriage. All | can say is, I love you and thank you for marrying me anyway."
Ant raised his glass. "Zweisamkeit," he said.
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Grief, Gun violence, Suicide, Violence, Death, Murder, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Drug use, Injury/injury detail, Sexism, Car accident, Hate crime, Death of parent, Religious bigotry, Sexual violence, Vomit, Abortion, Blood, Medical content, Mental illness, and Racism
Minor: Antisemitism, Alcohol, Cultural appropriation, Cursing, Gore, Homophobia, Infidelity, Pregnancy, Cancer, Classism, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, and Terminal illness
meaghanpal's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
There is just so much that happens in the book that it felt a bit long at points so that’s why it’s not a 5
Graphic: Car accident, Pregnancy, Death, Mass/school shootings, Gaslighting, Adult/minor relationship, Murder, Cursing, Vomit, Suicide, and Death of parent
Moderate: Cultural appropriation
lydiahollern's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Death of parent and Gun violence
Moderate: Sexual violence, Cancer, Car accident, Cursing, Suicide, and Blood
kipani4jc's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.0
Graphic: Gun violence, Mass/school shootings, Hate crime, Death, Cursing, and Toxic relationship