micalyia's review against another edition
5.0
While this book worked really well for me, I can understand why the critiques others have lobbied at it. This book is very experimental and I think this can come across as pretentious to some audiences. I think, my one qualm with this book was the references that Carmen would make, were not always accessible. Carmen does a good job of explaining the movie and song references she makes and how they pertain to her story but even so, because I was not previously exposed to a lot of what she wrote about I feel like It took me even longer to read the book, because I would often stop to see what she was talking about.
Overall, a really informative and novel memoir.
Graphic: Emotional abuse
buttercat42's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Toxic relationship, Blood, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Sexual assault, Sexual content, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Alcohol and Homophobia
ziggy_queerdust's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Gaslighting and Emotional abuse
cassornelas's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Toxic relationship, Emotional abuse, and Sexual violence
amberleigh838's review against another edition
4.5
Moderate: Gaslighting, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Physical abuse, Bullying, Sexual content, and Suicidal thoughts
waterbear0821's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Bullying, Domestic abuse, Toxic relationship, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Homophobia
alimact's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Physical abuse
abmochapman's review against another edition
4.0
Abuse in queer relationships is unique and deserving of the time and attention she pays to it in this book, and yet, the pain I experienced in abusive heterosexual relationships seems almost the same. I do not know the specific pain of being betrayed by a same-sex partner, someone who is so similar to me, but I do know what it’s like to doubt my own experiences and even wish there had been physical scars to which I could point as evidence. I understand that sick desire to be hurt enough to be heard.
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Lesbophobia, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, and Mental illness
Moderate: Sexual violence, Alcohol, and Infidelity
alex_mabel's review against another edition
4.0
The audio book was so great.
Graphic: Infidelity, Physical abuse, Gaslighting, Toxic relationship, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Violence
emcanady's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Homophobia, Violence, and Domestic abuse
Minor: Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, and Gaslighting