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The Forty Rules of Love by Elif Shafak

venusinlove's review against another edition

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adventurous dark emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.75

finally, after 8 years of being recommended this book, I've read it!!

and i feel like a fool.

the idea of the book was so good! the equality between religions and different people and how the world treats those said differences was well delivered but! at the same time i have some icks with this book.

firstly, the whole story between ella and aziz felt a bit too childish to me, i can't even explain it. I'm trying not to judge it too hard since this book is from 2009 and i guess that's how a love story was used to be put into a book? but i didn't feel anything out of their relationship. the whole thing about how love is the only thing that we should follow and "god is in everything" felt a bit too pushed. i mean, i get it but also it was like an ongoing mantra in the entire book. and i kind of got tired of it, I'm sorry. 

secondly, there were so many characters that if you were like me - listening to the audiobook more rather than reading it, it's hard to distinguish most of the people. i feel like this is a mistake on my part for listening to the audiobook... but at the same time, shouldn't it be clear on itself without wondering which person's turn it is to "talk"? 

and i think my biggest problem with this book is entirely on me - i was not educated enough on their religion and traditions. i quite literally knew nothing about dervishes and Sufism which transpired to me being very confused. i thought that i could finish this book and learn about it and i partly did, it was really interesting to me but i would continue my learning experience and get into that part of the religion. 

oh, i forgot to add - maybe be careful about adding ED into a book next time. :) also, the talk about gaining weight, because it's a touchy subject and it was used as something negative. i think these topics could have been skipped since they have nothing to do with the story.

all in all, the book was quite accessible even for a person who knows nothing about a certain lifestyle and traditions. i really liked rumi's last chapter, i felt it close to my heart. i hope my friend is proud of my for reading this book! he should be, it only took me 8 years after all. :)

bcgg's review against another edition

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3.0

Enjoyed it very much.

shanzehbxx's review

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emotional hopeful informative inspiring mysterious reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

megansgc's review against another edition

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4.0

Rounded up from 3.75. I really enjoyed the book within a book concept. It was like two books for the price of one! There was definitely some thought provoking and soul searching content and I enjoyed learning about Rumi and Shams. I didn’t fully connect well with it but I think that was my state of mind and reading the book at the wrong time. I also struggled with Ella’s choice at the end. A good one

tamara_mousa's review against another edition

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5.0

Amazing writer!
There is a summary about it in my blog - https://www.tamarayousefmousa.com/

cosspad's review against another edition

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emotional inspiring reflective

4.75

sakritamaharjan's review against another edition

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2.0

Not a fan of this book. It was so so hard to finish.

alysschapman's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging mysterious reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

winterroudy's review against another edition

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4.0

" عندما خرجت , دمدمت قاعدة من قواعد شمس : ليس من المتأخر مطلقًا أن تسأل نفسك, هل أن مستعد لتغيير الحياة التي أحياها ؟هل أنا مستعد لتغيير نفسي من الداخل

"و حتى لو كان قد تبقى من حياتك يوم واحد يشبه اليوم الذي سبقه , فإن ذلك يدعو للرثاء. ففي كل لحظة , و مع كل نَفَس جديد ,يجب على المرء أن يتجدد و يتجدد ثانية . و لا توجد إلا وسيلة واحدة حتى يولد المرء في حياة جديدة و هي أن يموت فبل الموت "

kate_in_a_book's review

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emotional reflective slow-paced

4.0