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4.0
Looking at this cover, I’m not sure what I expected. By the bright colors, I thought this would be a happy book! And while it had some happy parts, there was more sadness than anything.
First off, this is a pretty basic story about a husband and wife. We learn how they meet, their marriage, struggles with kids, family, and the biggest component about being a caregiver for your loved one. If you told me this, I would probably pass.
I’m glad I didn’t.
I felt Henkin spent equal time in the stages of Pru and Spence’s marriage. The meeting/honeymoon phase, parenting and careers, and then ultimately, death. It really showcases a relationship and how to care for one another, no matter what life throws at you.
My only complaint is not knowing enough about Spence’s son, Arlo. Rereading the synopsis, he’s mentioned, but it feels like the weight would be heavier within the book. And he’s a really great character for the little we learned about him!
Overall, I think the author did a great job describing the unpredictable progression of Alzheimer's and how minds play tricks on those who are diagnosed. The last time I saw my grandmother, she didn’t know who I was so this book definitely hit home and I’m wishing I read it sooner.
Content warnings: infidelity, death, Alzheimer’s, divorce, sibling bullying
Content Warnings
Moderate: Death and Infidelity
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