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Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know About the People We Don't Know by Malcolm Gladwell
100 reviews
hundhemm's review against another edition
1.5
Minor: Child abuse, Pedophilia, Rape, Suicide, Murder, and Sexual harassment
kfedwards88's review against another edition
3.0
Minor: Pedophilia, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, Torture, and Murder
ferdie's review against another edition
4.5
TThere were parts I greatly disagreed with and times where I waited for Gladwell to bring in perspectives in that he just... didn't. Overall, I appreciated what he added to conversation and definitely learned some new things, but am also walking away from the book feeling like there big pieces missing.
Graphic: Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, and Police brutality
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Suicide, and Alcohol
Minor: Alcoholism, Emotional abuse, and Torture
sidekicksam's review against another edition
2.25
Reading it again, I feel refreshed in the theories he outlines in the book. The 3 problems we have when encountering strangers (defaulting to the assumption that people can be trusted; thinking people's feelings always match their appearance and our inability to judge correctly whether someone is lying or the mismatch is happening; and that context is vital but also underappreciated) are a few that kept me curious, thinking and will stay with me in the back of my mind in encounters with strangers. Interesting food for thought and definitely contemplations that will stay with me.
That being said, I am uneasy with some of the examples Gladwell decided to explore to prove his points. I already had some question marks during my re-read, but after reading multiple 1-star reviews (which have gained 1,000+ likes) on the first page, I'm seriously reconsidering whether this book is good enough to be read on its own (without the accompanying guide/reviews to also challenge the examples given).
To use cases of rape and child molestation and trying to explain away the motives of witnesses or even instigators of the crimes is just... what? Why would you invalidate experiences of trauma instead of exploring the faulty assumptions on which we make errors (the cases of the Cuban spies in the CIA were much more compelling I think).
Example: Brock Turner raping a passed out drunk girl on campus is explained away by their (mutual) excessive drinking and misinterpeted signals - I have never had to explain to any of my boyfriends that no means no (and that if I don't wake up or respond that is also a big fucking NO).
Not taking the prejudice of race into consideration when discussing Sandra Bland's case, but explaining it away to miscommunication... especially with police brutality against Black people blowing up in the media in recent years, it's just harrowing.
I'm happy I don't just read books but also review them, because I may not have gotten further in my evaluation than 'whoo interesting material' without re-evaluating also the icky (and blatantly wrong) bits.
Read it at your own volition, but do heed my warning.
Graphic: Child abuse, Confinement, Death, Hate crime, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, Torture, Police brutality, Murder, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and War
bjdarby's review against another edition
1.0
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Death, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicide, Violence, Police brutality, and Sexual harassment
caitlinstanton's review against another edition
3.0
Graphic: Rape, Sexual assault, and Murder
whatthekatdraggedin's review against another edition
2.0
Graphic: Pedophilia, Rape, Suicide, Torture, and Police brutality
piperashley21's review against another edition
1.5
Graphic: Child abuse, Rape, and Sexual assault
lolasherwin's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Rape
Moderate: Racism
catherinemorganowen's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Racism, Rape, Sexual violence, and Torture