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The enduring friendship between Funmi, Zainab and Enitan is what makes this book utterly engaging. Their personalities are so different but their connection so deep, which really becomes apparent when we begin to learn more of their history. I loved each of these women for different reasons, and I was hungry to learn everything about them that the book could offer.

Speaking of hungry, if you read this and don't find yourself Googling all the amazing dishes that are mentioned, then we probably can't be friends. From puff puff to efo to jollof rice to pounded yams, the food is so beautifully described I swear my mouth was watering. The way Nigerian cuisine and culture is so beautifully wrought throughout was just wonderful to read.

It's so interesting to start the story in 2015, when each woman has been through so much already, and then to travel back to the late '80s and see how much they each changed because of the events that surrounded them. The way Enitan is torn between her love for her friends and her desire to stop being seen as the lease independent of them; Zainab's passion for literature and her dream of becoming a writer; Funmi's fierce independence borne of a lonely childhood, that transforms into something so unexpected. I was absolutely hooked by this story from the beginning.

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emotional hopeful relaxing medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes

4.25

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emotional funny reflective sad fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? No
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

Thanks to AA Knopf for the free advance copy of this book.

- DELE WEDS DESTINY is a beautiful character study of three wildly different women, whose friendship has endured across decades, distance, and differences.
- I was quite engrossed in their stories, particularly once we got to the flashback section and found out where the cracks in their relationships began.
- However, I found the ending totally abrupt. Not only did the book end at the climactic moment, but hardly anything that was unearthed in the flashbacks was addressed in the present day, and not in any let's-work-through-it sort of way. It was just told to us and then left there. I found it to be a bit baffling for a story and characters that had such promise.

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