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Seeing Ghosts by Kat Chow

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jayisreading's review against another edition

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4.5

Seeing Ghosts was a beautiful and poignant memoir that invited the reader into Chow's journey through grief. As much as this memoir was an homage of sorts to her late mother, it was also one that reflected on family dynamics—particularly between Chow and her father—as well as honoring one's family history and culture. Grief certainly was at the center of this memoir, but there was also an abundance of care and love that permeated throughout the pages. Chow demonstrates how one can still find hope even in times of darkness.

I was familiar with Chow's work from her time with NPR's Code Switch, and her wonderful storytelling really shone in this memoir in a way that honored her family, history, and culture. I also appreciated the insight of growing up in Connecticut in an Asian immigrant household, which had its own challenges. (On this note, I am all for more Asian American New Englanders writing about their lived experiences, haha.)

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kailey_reads's review

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3.0


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3.0


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bookishcori's review against another edition

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4.25

memoir about grief, involving layers of intergenerational loss and stifling of all that’s left unspoken. Unsurprisingly, I loved this one.

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4.75


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3.75


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paperknotbooks's review against another edition

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4.0

I will turn to this book when in grief over a loss. 🖤

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biblio_jordyn's review against another edition

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5.0

“What is grief, if not the act of survival.”

“This is what it means to lose someone, understanding how, after all these years, memories shift and shape us. How we cannot exorcise someone as much as we try; we must learn the ways in which we preserve parts of them in ourselves.”

This book was a heartbreaking and raw memoir about grief and loss. The loss of a parent. The loss of culture. The loss of language and connection through it. The loss of family. And by the end, it’s a story about somehow piecing things back together even if it takes years and years.

It’s a story of immigration.

It’s a story of family.

This book tackles race and the divide within races and the discrimination they face.

It speaks on depression and the generational differences.

The idea of success, survival, and poverty. Particularly, how poverty effects peoples ability to go to the doctor and peoples relationship with them and distrust.

It speaks on the idea of the “right” way of immigration, which is constantly a battle in the US.

I loved this memoir. It was heavy, but purposeful and I definitely would recommend it for those who can handle the triggers.

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3.75

Every person has stories to tell, every family.
Thank you to Grand Central Publishing for my gifted review copy of Seeing Ghosts!
This is author/journalist Kat Chow's experience with losing her mother to cancer at a young age, when she was still in high school. We see Kat's upbringing as the child of Chinese immigrants, learn of her traditions and family fabric.
It's fascinating to look inside someone else's life, even one so outwardly different from our own, and still see our similarities. Though it is also difficult to review a book of another person's experiences.
This is an emotional read, raw and honest storytelling tempered by layers of memory and prose. It's not only about Kat losing her mother, it's about reframing how to live in a space without that person and with those who remain, here specifically her father and two sisters. It's also about discovery of who came before and the impacts and parallels.
Acknowledging the realities of death, the pain of grieving, the journey one undergoes by absorbing the experiences, can be cathartic for some. Triggering for others, so be aware what the book is about before pursuing. 
Recommended.
For release on Aug. 24.

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