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emotional hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

3.75

Really helpful for people looking to understand their emotionally immature and/or malignant narcissist parents or guardians. Doesn’t hold enough nuance for people of the global majority. Most of the emphasis on the book is how to maintain a relationship with these parents, and didn’t spend enough time on adult children who have already done these steps and are needing to move to low/no contact. Attachment theory would be a helpful addition

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emotional informative reflective medium-paced

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cigarete_smoke's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.0


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shima707's review against another edition

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Disturbingly useful

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informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

5.0


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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad fast-paced

4.0

Informative book which describes emotionally immature parents, their children, their relationships, childhood and adult difficulties, remediation, and tools for success. Very hopeful and difficult book to read. 

I only wish that the book was longer and slower paced. It moves too quickly and lacks deep exploration of some issues. It is lacking on the intersection of emotional immaturity and race, gender, social class, etc.

I read it every few years as a way of checking in with my own personal development as I continually navigate relationships with parents and friends at various levels of emotional maturity.

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stepnic's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

5.0


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challenging emotional funny informative reflective fast-paced

4.0

Very enlightening read, I really think everyone can learn something from it. My few complaints was how internalizer-focused it was. I felt like more focus could've been on externalizers. As she herself said, everyone falls on a spectrum. Another thing that bothered me was it was a bit stigmatizing, "emotionally immature" and "mature" was probably used for simplicity. Again, we all do fall on a spectrum. Even the most emotionally mature person has moments of immaturity. 

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challenging informative reflective fast-paced

4.25


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basicbookstagrammer's review against another edition

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informative inspiring reflective fast-paced

5.0


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