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Ask Me About My Uterus: A Quest to Make Doctors Believe in Women's Pain by Abby Norman
3 reviews
idk_indigo's review against another edition
challenging
informative
slow-paced
4.75
I really enjoyed this book! It was very informative, very enlightening. Some of the book’s Amazon reviews are quite negative, primarily because it’s a very self-reflective book. Norman acknowledges that this book is more of a dive into her personal experience & what research she has compiled in an effort to better understand her illness & her pain. Less of a know-all about endometriosis, which we see towards the end of the book when she is in the diagnosis stages of another chronic illness. The book talks about the author’s journey with chronic illness with an implied, “This is how it was for me. Others may relate, but I am not speaking for anyone else.” I appreciated the physician aspect; most physicians are trying their best, but they are also imperfect. It is a very true phenomenon that women’s pain is taken less seriously; this rings especially true for WOC & for disabled/chronically or mentally ill women. I enjoyed this book; definitely not a medical guidebook on endometriosis, but I don’t think it was ever trying to be.
Graphic: Ableism, Chronic illness, and Medical trauma
Moderate: Eating disorder, Sexism, Excrement, Medical content, and Grief
Minor: Child abuse, Infertility, Vomit, and Abandonment
smilagros's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
informative
sad
tense
medium-paced
4.5
4.5✨
I listened to this on audio and then I decided to order the book on Pango. Reading this and highlighting made the entire experience really helpful. I do think that there were a lot of interesting facts about Endometriosis that I had no idea. What is really sad is that this book has so many similarities to my story. As I am getting ready to have my 4th surgery, this was a very interesting.
I listened to this on audio and then I decided to order the book on Pango. Reading this and highlighting made the entire experience really helpful. I do think that there were a lot of interesting facts about Endometriosis that I had no idea. What is really sad is that this book has so many similarities to my story. As I am getting ready to have my 4th surgery, this was a very interesting.
Graphic: Ableism, Chronic illness, Suicidal thoughts, Medical content, and Medical trauma
caseythereader's review against another edition
challenging
dark
emotional
funny
informative
reflective
medium-paced
4.5
- Part memoir and part history of doctors dismissing "female problems," ASK ME ABOUT MY UTERUS is gripping and enraging. I'd wager that even if you don't have endometriosis in particular, you'll see your own experiences with the medical system reflected here (me. I did, it's me).
- Norman doesn't shy away from describing exactly what her pain - physical and emotional - feels like. This book is a tough read but I think many will find it cathartic to be seen on the page.
- Norman is careful to point out that not only women deal with uterine pain and illness, and also that not all women have uteruses, and the extra layer of fear and frustration this can add to trying to get diagnosis and treatment. She's also up front about how being straight, white, and cisgender framed her whole situation and afforded her more privilege throughout this process than others (and the flip side of that, of how being a traditionally feminine woman led to instances of dismissal).
- It's in the content warnings listed below, but I want to point it out here as well since it's not obvious from the summary - major content warnings for child neglect, eating disorders and suicide particularly in the chapters discussing Norman's childhood.
- Norman doesn't shy away from describing exactly what her pain - physical and emotional - feels like. This book is a tough read but I think many will find it cathartic to be seen on the page.
- Norman is careful to point out that not only women deal with uterine pain and illness, and also that not all women have uteruses, and the extra layer of fear and frustration this can add to trying to get diagnosis and treatment. She's also up front about how being straight, white, and cisgender framed her whole situation and afforded her more privilege throughout this process than others (and the flip side of that, of how being a traditionally feminine woman led to instances of dismissal).
- It's in the content warnings listed below, but I want to point it out here as well since it's not obvious from the summary - major content warnings for child neglect, eating disorders and suicide particularly in the chapters discussing Norman's childhood.
Graphic: Ableism, Body shaming, Child abuse, Child death, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Gore, Infertility, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Sexism, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Blood, Vomit, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, and Pregnancy
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