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Shadow Life by Hiromi Goto

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whatisjordyreading's review against another edition

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adventurous dark emotional funny reflective sad tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

  • screaming crying throwing uppp

  • some parts reminded me of jesus' journey to crucifixion-- not in an off-putting way but in a literature-referencing-literature kind of way.

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bookbrig's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5

I laughed out loud several times while reading this, and I fell in love with Kumiko. I don't think I quite got the full picture of the ending, but it was still such a great read! It's a mixture of humor and worry and care and irritation all bound up in one fairly simple story. I particularly loved the art style for the shadow and its creatures. 

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talonsontypewriters's review

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emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5


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mephistofelix's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional funny hopeful reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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hflh's review against another edition

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adventurous funny hopeful reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

Overall
I loved every part of this book right down to the author's note. It's funny, tender, and wonderfully queer. This book delivers on what the blurb promises and then some and I would definitely recommend to anyone who is looking for queer representation, likes more surrealist magical realism and maybe a bit of the supernatural, and loves a good lovable but flawed older woman main character. The narrative is tight (though fast-paced if that doesn't suit you) and the characters are well-defined in a short time.

The Art
The art is great, especially if you like a simple, flow-y style. I really enjoyed Ann Xu's paneling and the use of the colour black in and between panels. If you are like me, you will also appreciate the unapologetic and non-sexualized portrayal of women's bodies, particularly older ones.

An added bonus: Comments on aging and caring for aging relatives
My enjoyment and rating stand without this element, so I'd still recommend the book if this part doesn't speak to you.

Among the magical realism elements and the interactions between Kumiko and her daughter, Goto explores some of the mental and physical challenges with aging, including the desire to keep your independence in a body that is not always on your side.  Goto also explores the frustrations for caretakers when trying to care for stubborn loved ones who can struggle to care for themselves, including the challenge of finding the balance between caretaking and leaving space for their autonomy. This really resonated with me as someone helping care for a grandmother with dementia who falls frequently but can't admit it or accept help. It was also a good reminder that this struggle is hard for both of us.

But what I really appreciated was that Goto explores these topics within the space of magical realism, allowing for things to still feel light and have an unambiguous happy ending. Kumiko still has physical autonomy and when she's forgetful or seeing supernatural things, it's not because she's losing her mental faculties. For me at least, this made these parts of the narrative cathartic without making me feel heavy or depressed.

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Also the book is set in Vancouver, BC if that's something that interests you - but non-Vancouverites won't be missing anything without that background :) 

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readingwithkt's review against another edition

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adventurous emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

SHADOW LIFE by Hiromi Goto, illustrated by Ann Xu tells the story of 76-year old Kumiko who escapes the assisted living home her daughters set her up in and goes to live on her own terms. Keeping her location a secret while remaining in contact with her daughter, Kumiko finds joy in the little things. Going to the library, for a swim in the local pool, and in setting up her new home and living her life as she pleases. (Gotta say: love this energy) 
 
However, Kumiko soon realises that Death’s Shadow has followed her from her last residence and she’s on a mission to shake it off her back. 
 
Honestly really enjoyed this one! It maintained a lighthearted tone (even making me laugh) while also exploring some deeper and more challenging topics. Kumiko was such a lovable character! And I was fully rooting for her throughout. 
 
Loved the artwork too! Truly beautiful monochrome drawings which just brought this story to life in the most wonderful way. 

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redrosemoth's review

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adventurous emotional hopeful mysterious medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0


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nikspandya's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A

5.0

This was just amazing. I loved reading about an elderly MC dead set on living her life. Highly recommend!

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emily_mh's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

5.0

The plot of this graphic novel starts off gentle, setting up a solid foundation for the rest of the narrative to take place. Then suddenly the action begins and the stakes are so high that you are captivated and racing to finish, even when there are slower moments. This book is also heavily character motivated, with the focus on MC Kumiko.

Having an elderly MC being written with such respect by the author was amazing. Kumiko was so dynamic: steadfast and funny, full of love and grief. I loved her resolve and sheer determination. I loved that this book showed her joys and disasters. I’ve never had the pleasure of reading an elderly character written this way before; it’s how it should always be done.

The community that built up around Kumiko was so wonderful, full of community love, neighbourly love, family love, and queer love too.

Even though this book is about death, it doesn’t read as heavy. It actually has a really hopeful outlook on death; the reason Kumiko is fighting it is not because she is scared but because she doesn’t feel like it’s her time to go. Yet neither does the narrative brush over the crushing emotional impact of death on those still living. It strikes a careful balance between the two that as a reader I found validating, yet palatable. 

I think the black-and-white colour palette was actually such a good choice for the book, matching its morbid and at times somber tone. And of course, I love Anne Xu’s art style, particularly her use of thin line weight.

As a final note, my favourite quote from the book was: “More of us feel closer to death than we have ever felt, but it is possible to live vibrantly, even near Death’s shadow.”

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brogan7's review against another edition

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4.0

I really enjoyed this book and it is also a hard read because it portrays an elderly woman with dementia who runs away from an assisted living facility and that portrayal is pretty much victorious and unambiguously "good"...whereas the reality of what families go through to secure assistance for their loved ones and the balance of choices to assess risk versus freedom or safety versus independence....is not adequately considered in this book.  

The illustrations are outstanding and the expressions in the character's faces and body language are just so life-like.  It truly gives a sense of "animation."

The fantastical/magical aspects were sometimes confusing to me (I wasn't sure what I was looking at), but I enjoyed the fluidity between real and not-real.

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